• Koh Phangan, Thailand
  • Ongoing

Event Highlights

  • Event Highlights
  • Meditations to create abundance, heal depression and create deeper connection in your life
  • Release of emotional/ energetic blockages, old belief systems and trauma
  • Conscious and honest relating with yourself and in partnerships
  • Taking accountability for our own pleasure & sexuality
  • Being in integrity to establish trust- a foundation for opening a women to sexuality
  • Communication skills in relating with men/ women
  • Practice in Presence- the greatest present you can offer someone!
  • Intimate practices for deep and lasting connections
  • Art of Touch/ Conscious Sensual Touch
  • Self-love cultivation, The foundation of loving others!
  • Sexual control & recognition of how your sexual energy is being utilized
  • Increased capacity for pleasure, distribution of sexual energy
  • Healing through the ‘pleasure pathways’
  • Sexual Sublimation techniques
  • Potential for Kundalini awakening- Preparing the body for high vibrational energy
  • Understanding of how to improve your sexual virility; Becoming multi-orgasmic
  • Fun and excitement with a magnificent woman!


The schedule will look something like this:
7:00 - 9:30 am Morning Solo Time- beach stroll, yoga, etc
9:30 - 11:00 am Breakfast ‘Pow Wow’ & plan the day*
12:00 - 1:30 pm Session 1: A Taoist self-cultivation practice, meditation or practice
1:30 - 3:30 pm Lunch
3:30 - 5:00 pm Afternoon Siesta - Solo time to shop, enjoy the beach or shared adventure time
5:00 - 7:30 pm Dinner
8:00 - 10:00 pm Session 2: A more intimate Tantric practice, Shamanic Journey or Tantric Ritual.

*Since this is a private retreat, we will check in with each other in the morning and design the structure of our day together. This helps us stay bonded and co-create this journey.

About This Event


I am a Tantra Facilitator and Sacred Sexuality Coach, specializing in private instruction, Tantra massage, and retreats. My modalities are neo-Tantra, The Art of Conscious Touch, Boundaries and Consent, Taoist Arts, Shamanic Arts, Bodywork, including Tantric Massage, Yoni Massage, Sexual Trauma Release, Yoni De-armouring, Reiki, Dance Therapy, Feminine/Masculine Empowerment.

Whatever it takes to move energy to return to our natural states of JOY, BLISS, and ABUNDANCE!!!

Private Tantra Instruction
 I teach a culmination of skills, techniques, and practices acquired under the top living tantra teachers today, as well as Taoist Sexual Kung Fu practices and a fusion of other styles. 

These are typically 90 minutes to 2 hours minimum, with me as your practice partner or as a guide for couples. Most of the practices can be done solo or with a partner.

This is all designed on an individualized basis and practiced in an intimate, private setting.

Depending on your experience, if any, how many sessions you want, desires of what you would like out of a session(s), we have a lot we can explore!

Meditations to create abundance, heal depression and deeper connection
Release of emotional/ energetic blockages, old belief systems, and trauma
Conscious and honest relating with yourself and in partnerships
Communication skills in relating to men/women
Practice in Presence- the greatest present you can offer someone!
Intimate practices for deep and lasting connections
Addiction to pornography & quick release
Art of Conscious Touch
Self-love cultivation, which is the foundation of loving others
Sexual control
Recognition of how your sexual energy is being utilized
Increased capacity for pleasure
Healing through the 'pleasure pathways'
Sexual Sublimation techniques
Kundalini activation techniques
Understanding of how to improve your sexual virility
 Becoming multi-orgasmic

Tantra Massage is a therapy that is very much like a meditation in being present with your pleasure.

Many of us are desensitized from feeling the full range of bodily pleasure from being told that it is wrong to feel sexual and love our bodies. By reawakening the nerve endings in the skin, in a different way than regular massage, the cells in the body start to vibrate with aliveness.

Through deep breathing, we bring the sexual energy up through the chakras, redistributing the life force energy. This creates the ability to feel pleasure and even orgasmic in more than just the genital area. By utilizing the breath with slow stimulation, you are able to connect to your sexuality in a new way, increasing your threshold for pleasure.

This therapy works by increasing the neural connections in the brain, sending signals back to tell the body that it can allow more bliss, abundance, and healing, but first, we must desire this. It takes presence and intention to connect, heal and expand our capacity to receive.

Tantric Yoni Massage for women assists to heal sexual issues:

Hard tissue along the walls of the yoni  Understanding boundaries and consent and asking for what you wantSmall grain-like lumps  - Numb areas or total numbness  Dryness  Lack of sensitivity Contracted and hard inner muscles A hard and overly sensitive cervix  -Pain during love-making  Inability to experience deep yoni orgasms, or G-spot and full body orgasms No orgasms at all A need to rub your clit hard (as the only way for you to climax).

Receiving a Tantra massage can feel reminiscent of when we were young and felt enhanced sexual sensitivity and sexual virility, as this is our natural state of being!

It is performed with complete awareness, love, and worship of your body. Yoni Massage clears stagnation and is very important therapy in cervical cancer prevention.

It can also be a form of "de-armoring", which is a therapy to help release emotional or energetic trauma or blockages that tend to get hung up in this part of the body.

Receiving a Yoni Massage may be uncomfortable at first if you're not accustomed to it, but many women find it very pleasurable and it can significantly enhance the orgasmic potential. It is possible for women to achieve orgasm through stimulation alone, although the genitals are also stimulated simultaneously.  

Women have reported the orgasmic pleasure significantly increase after a session.

Tantric massage increases vitality, the ability for female ejaculation, increases pleasure and orgasmic potential. Orgasm is NOT the goal, although it can be a result.

 A very connected, relaxing journey into your sensuality. We will begin with eye gazing and breathing together. There will be somebody movement, as we sway together, heart to heart. You are encouraged to make sounds, move your body and breathe deeply to move energy.

The touch is a quality that is slow and conscious. I will gradually tantalize the whole body with this sensual touch to get every cell vibrating with aliveness. Sometimes I will use breath, feathers, fingernails, whispering to awaken multi-faceted sensations.

It is a full body session, using emotional release techniques and the breasts. It is performed with complete presence, love and worship of your body. 

 Learn these Tantric massage styles, either for a man or for a woman. A delicious and sacred practice to bring passion and connection to your love life! 

2 people required- 1 giver and 1 receiver. This is a one-way massage. It is not necessary to be in a sexual relationship, but you must feel comfortable enough with each other to perform this intimate session. 

Prior experience with me is required.

This was one of the most transformative experiences of my life. I have so much more love for myself and my body. Thank you Shaft for your presence.

What's Included

  • For the 2 days, you will be taken out to the best high vibe Vegan restaurants on the island and the Ecstatic Dances

What's Not Included


Venue Highlights

Since this is a private, one-on-one retreat, we will be utilizing the common area of this private house.


Since this is a private, one-on-one retreat, we will be utilizing the common area of this private house.


  • Free Wifi
  • Ceremony Space

Menu Types

  • Vegan


Get a plane to Koh Samui and then a Ferry to Koh Phangan and I will send you a map on how to get here once you confirm you booking.

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