About this Retreat
Stefanie Boyce, B.A, CSD, CET-1, R-YFT, MBC is the Oaks Retreat Director, creator of the Oaks Retreat signature framework and Founder and Therapeutic Coach at Inner Sanctuary Home, Inc. She received her degree in Psychology and Community Health and holds certifications as an Experiential Therapist, Spiritual Director, Yoga Instructor, Mind-Body Coach and Wellness Counselor.
She has received additional training in Integrative Somatic Parts Work and Psychodrama modalities and has prior experience working with Domestic Violence, Pediatric Hospice, and Church Ministry. She also enjoys her collaborative relationship serving on the team as a Therapeutic Coach at Radical Wellness Co. in San Clemente, CA.
Stefanie hosts workshops, retreats, yoga instruction, and therapeutic coaching for individuals and groups. Blending her creative passions, life experience, and training, she loves holding space for others to get curious, dig deep, and live well.
Stefanie lives outside of San Diego, CA with her family. Learn more at StefanieBoyce.com
Justin Boyce is a seasoned professional with a passion for holistic well-being and personal transformation. As a certified SHERPA breath and cold instructor and a CrossFit Level 1 Trainer, Justin brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the realms of breathwork, cold exposure, and physical fitness.
Justin's journey into the world of wellness began with a deep curiosity about the intersection of mental and physical health. His exploration led him to discover the profound impact of breathwork and cold therapy on one's overall health and vitality. His passion for fitness and movement allows him to support individuals in achieving their fitness goals, whether they are beginners or seasoned athletes.
Justin's approach is characterized by a deep commitment to helping individuals harness their inner strength, optimize their health, and elevate their performance. With a warm and encouraging demeanor, he guides his clients and students on a journey toward greater well-being, vitality, and self-discovery.
At The Oaks , we believe in the power of diverse voices and expertise to create truly transformative experiences. That’s why our retreats feature a rotating lineup of incredible guest guides who bring fresh perspectives, professional wisdom, and creative approaches to our workshops and activities. These guides are carefully selected to align with the themes of each retreat, offering insights and tools that inspire personal growth, connection, and renewal.
But most importantly, every guide at The Oaks—whether they’re leading a session, offering a hands-on experience, or simply holding space—is here to learn your story. They are passionate about meeting you where you are, supporting you in meaningful ways, and helping you find clarity, confidence, and a deeper sense of belonging.
While our core facilitators ensure every retreat is thoughtfully crafted, the dynamic energy of our guest guides ensures there’s always something new to discover. We’re continually adding to this talented team, so stay tuned as we bring in even more experts to enrich your time at The Oaks. Together, we’re here to walk alongside you as you explore what’s next.
Details of this retreat
Price includes lodging, programming, fitness/yoga classes, contrast therapy and meals. Extra experiences (like massage or 1:1 coaching) can be added on separately after you register.
Everything on the schedule is optional. We want you to get what you need out of this weekend.
Check-in is Friday between 2:00-4:00pm. The first session is 4:30pm on Friday. We wrap up on Sunday around 10:30am, but we are about an hour outside San Diego and recommend planning some buffer time for travel and lunch so you're not rushed leaving. We also have an early-check in option if you'd like to add an extra day and come on Thursday. Then you would have 3 nights and 2 full days of full access to the property amenities, classes, and pre-retreat programming. You'll see that add-on as an option when you register.
Habits are the building blocks of a fulfilling life. They provide structure, enhance efficiency, and empower us to pursue our aspirations. By cultivating positive habits, we can create a life that aligns with our values and brings genuine happiness. As James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, reminds us, “To love your habits is to love your days, and to love your days is to love your life.”
During this retreat, we will explore the core principles of habit formation and delve into the psychology behind successful habits. Discover how even the smallest changes can lead to remarkable results, and develop a personalized habit-building plan tailored to your goals. Through interactive sessions, you’ll learn the power of identity-based habits and how to align them with who you truly are, rather than the expectations of who you should be.
The weekend offers a balanced mix of optional workshops, personal reflection, and free time to rest, play, and explore. You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of habit psychology, practical strategies to kickstart your transformation, and the motivation to make lasting change.
In a world filled with quick fixes and overnight successes, we believe in the power of small beginnings. It's time to shift our hustle mindset and take cues from the rhythms of nature, where growth is gradual, collaborative, and sustainable. Play is another key element—helping us soften our fears of failure and build resilience. Join us for this transformative journey, where nurturing habits become the foundation for a life well-lived.
OPTIONAL WORKSHOPS
subject to change.
Pre-Retreat Session: Setting Your Intentions
For early arrivals, we'll start with a pre-session focused on exploring the current landscape of your habits. We’ll reflect on the patterns that have shaped your life, celebrate your successes, and identify obstacles that have held you back. This session sets the tone for the weekend, offering a chance to pause, gain perspective, and prepare for the journey of transformation ahead.
Workshop 1: Cultivating the Foundation: Understanding the Psychology of Habits
Delve into the psychology of why we form habits and why some are harder to change. You'll learn how to design and implement effective habit loops and examine past successes and challenges. By understanding the foundation of your habits, you'll be better equipped to make lasting changes with intention.
Workshop 2: The Power of Identity-Based Habits: Aligning with Who You Are Becoming
Habits are closely linked to our sense of identity. In this workshop, you’ll explore how your habits can align with the person you aspire to be. Learn how to craft an identity-based habit vision that supports your growth and discover how aligning your actions with your true self can lead to powerful, lasting change.
Workshop 3: Nature and Play as Our Guides: Finding Joyful Progress
Nature shows us the beauty of gradual, sustainable growth. In this session, you’ll learn how to align your habits with the rhythms of the natural world to create lasting transformation. We’ll also explore the role of play in habit change, discovering how to incorporate joy and spontaneity into our journey toward growth.
Workshop 4: Nurturing Sustainable Change: Building a Lasting Foundation
The key to lasting habit change is integration. This workshop will guide you in exploring habit-stacking techniques that make change feel effortless. You’ll clarify your vision for who you are and where you're headed, creating kind reminders and invitations that support your ongoing transformation.
Why This Matters
Transforming our habits is about more than just achieving goals; it's about aligning our actions with our values and the person we want to become. This retreat isn’t about quick fixes—it's about building a sustainable foundation for lasting change. By understanding the psychology of our habits and learning to nurture them with kindness, we can create a life that feels more intentional and fulfilling.
Who This Retreat Is For
This retreat is for anyone ready to understand their habits on a deeper level and make meaningful, lasting changes. Whether you're looking to break old patterns, cultivate new ones, or simply understand what drives your behavior, this retreat offers a space for self-discovery and growth. If you want to create a more sustainable and compassionate relationship with your habits, this weekend is for you. Join us alone, with a partner, or with friends, and let's embark on a journey of transforming our habits together.
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