记录 Recording | 成為合諧共創的生命 - 在薩提爾與海文的連結中讓生命精彩綻放 Becoming: The Satir & Haven Connection

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課程說明
在有限的時間內，我們將發布薩提爾 Satir 模式最重要的導師之一瑪莉亞‧葛茉利 Maria Gomori 和海文學院 Haven 的聯合創始人麥基卓 Jock McKeen 之間這段引人入勝的對話。這兩位經驗豐富的教育工作者在線上討論了他們各自代表的兩種啟發生命的方法。

維琴尼亞‧薩提爾 Virginia Satir (1916~1988) 被譽為世上最早也是最有影響力的家庭治療師之一，但她的成就遠超於此。她與海文學院The Haven的兩位創辦人黃煥祥Bennet Wong博士(1930~2013)以及麥基卓Jock McKeen博士結緣於1970年代，在共同好友瑪莉亞‧葛茉利Maria Gomori的介紹下開始他們的友誼。
薩提爾Satir博士曾說：『也許我在與人相處的工作中非常成功，然而這不是因為我知道多少，而是因為我是誰。』薩提爾Satir模式強調在家庭動態的背景下『自我認可』；海文Haven則以融合東西方概念的全人觀點來強調自我覺察以及在關係中的成長與轉化；這兩種模式有著異曲同工和相輔相成的效果！
瑪莉亞 Maria於1974年遇到了煥祥 Ben和基卓 Jock。她最初是他們的學生，渴望學習他們新穎的方法。自此三人成為了終生的良師益友。瑪莉亞‧葛茉利Maria Gomori是當今世上最重要的薩提爾Satir模式之先驅。2021年五月她和基卓Jock以及她在海文的朋友們在線上慶祝了她101歲的生日。

 

[caption id="attachment_10325" align="aligncenter" width="300"] 黃煥祥，麥基卓，瑪莉亞‧葛茉利2010年在海文合影 Bennet Wong, Jock McKeen and Maria Gomori in 2010 at the Haven[/caption]

海文Haven模式與薩提爾Satir模式
『我們的連結是基於我們的相同，我們的學習是來自我們的不同。』

— 維琴尼亞‧薩提爾 Virginia Satir
 

儘管薩提爾Satir模式和海文Haven模式之間存在著一些差異，但其基本原理是非常相似的，有時只是用不同的語言來做描述。這兩種方法都在邀請我們更深入地探究『我是誰』這個難題。對於兩者而言，通往未知世界的旅程有著許多切入點和不同維度。請加入我們一起來見證這兩位終生合作的良師益友 – 聽聽他們如何獨特地掌握了兩人畢生之鑽研以及實踐的經驗！

 

[caption id="attachment_10324" align="aligncenter" width="300"] 黃煥祥，麥基卓，維琴尼亞‧薩提爾1987年在海文合影 Bennet Wong, Jock McKeen and Virginia Satir in 1987 at the Haven[/caption]

 
『煥祥Ben和基卓Jock所創建的海文Haven是一所獨特的生命教育學校，在這個特別的地方，人們可以了解自己、學習生活以及人際關係。他們為海文Haven所開發的經驗及住宿式的課程是非常獨特的學習經驗，課程在協助人們深入且有意義地了解自己。就像維琴尼亞‧薩提爾Virginia Satir一樣，他們不僅是從理論上講授，他們更是從生活中的經驗來教導。』 — 瑪莉亞‧葛茉利 Maria Gomori

『海文Haven是一個特殊的地方，一個家，一個環境，​​一個擁有自然和美麗的容器，人們可以在課堂內和環境中落實所學。” — 瑪莉亞‧葛茉利Maria Gomori
 
課程形式
從 2021 年 7 月開始，這段長達 2 小時的網絡研討會錄音講述了 Haven 最受喜愛的兩位老師 Maria Gomori 和 Jock McKeen 之間的對話。此錄影課程將提供至 2022 年 6 月 18 日，錄音將提供至 2022 年 7 月 18

 

 
活動費用
CAD$20-40

 

這個活動是海文的一個募款課程，謝謝瑪莉亞和基卓的慷慨奉獻，以及所有跨海的志工們，所有人直接或間接參與支持著這個活動的順利推展。海文是加拿大政府登記註冊的非營利機構，您的捐贈將協助於我們像這次一樣，持續推出精彩的課程來維繫並拓展我們所從事的身心成長教育事業。

 



Program Description
We are re-releasing this engaging dialogue between Maria Gomori, one of the foremost teachers of Satir processes, and Jock McKeen, the co-founder of the Haven. These experienced educators discussed the two approaches they represent in an online dialogue.

Virginia Satir (1916~1988) was renowned as one of the first and foremost influential family therapists in the world; but she was much more than that. She and the two founders of The Haven, Dr. Bennet Wong (1930~2013) and Dr. Jock McKeen, began their friendship in the 1970’s, introduced by their mutual friend Maria Gomori.

Dr. Satir once said: "Maybe I had so much success with people, not because of what I know but because of who I am." The Satir approach emphasizes “self-validation,” in the context of family dynamics; Haven's holistic view focuses on self-awareness and relational growth, blending Eastern and Western concepts. Although the two approaches have different emphases in some ways, they complement each other well.

Maria met Ben and Jock in 1974. She started out as their student, eager to learn their novel approaches. Since then the three became lifetime colleagues and best friends. Maria Gomori is one of the world’s foremost living proponents of the Satir Approach. In May 2021, she celebrated her 101st birthday online with Jock and her Haven friends.

 
The Haven & Satir Approaches
 
"We connect based on our sameness and we learn from our differentness." – Virginia Satir
 

Although there are some differences between the Satir and the Haven approaches, the underlying principles are very similar, sometimes described with different language. Both approaches invite us to investigate more deeply the puzzle of “who I am.” For both, there are many entry points and dimensions to this journey into the unknown. Please join us to witness these two long-time collaborators and friends as they share their unique mastery of their life-long study and practice.

 
“The Haven that Ben and Jock created is a unique school of life, a special place where people could learn about themselves and their life and relationships. The experiential residential programs they developed for Haven are remarkable learning opportunities that help people to understand themselves in deep and meaningful ways. Like Virginia Satir, they did not just teach from theory; they taught from what they lived.” – Maria Gomori
 
“Haven is a special place, a home, a context, a container with nature and beauty, where people can live the learnings both in the classroom and the environment.” – Maria Gomori
 
Format 
This 2-hour webinar recording features Great conversation between two of the Haven’s most beloved teachers Maria Gomori and Jock McKeen. Purchase will be available until June 18th, 2022 and the recording will be accessible until July 18th, 2022.