Awakening Passion: Trust, Play & Love

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Menla Retreat & Dewa Spa, Pantherkill Road, Phoenicia, NY, USA
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Up to 16 in group
Date
February 26 - March 1, 2026

Retreat Highlights

  • Reawaken your primal passion and confidence in a safe, joyful container
  • Explore trust, play, and authentic intimacy over an expanded 4-day immersion
  • Learn Tantra as a life skill you can apply daily, in or out of relationship
  • Master embodied communication, boundaries, and consent practices
  • Strengthen your individuality while deepening connection with others
  • Discover the intersection of sexuality and spirituality through proven methods
  • Build sacredness into your love life with practical, playful exercises
  • Balance attachment needs without losing yourself or abandoning your authenticity
  • Integrate breathwork, connection rituals, and choice-based touch frameworks
  • Create a personal roadmap linking your values and desires for daily practice
  • Learn from married teachers with 30+ years of lived experience in Tantra
  • Experience world-class Dewa Spa treatments inspired by Tibetan medicine
  • Enjoy pristine Catskills wilderness, hiking trails, and healing natural surroundings
  • Open to all genders, orientations, and relationship statuses—singles welcome
  • Certificate serves as prerequisite for advanced Love & Ecstasy Training Cycles

About this Retreat

Your Guides

Details of this retreat

Are you seeking more passion and love in your life? Do you wish to feel more confident and joyful?

Awakening Passion: Trust, Play & Love is perfect for those who want to discover healthy ways to approach intimacy and create new opportunities to live with more energy, vitality, and authentic confidence. Singles and couples equally appreciate the fun and safe ways we explore love, passion, and relationship-enhancing connection.

Through proven Tantric methods, you’ll build from the bottom up—cultivating a strong, centered self from which passion naturally arises. If life has felt dull or unfulfilling, this weekend helps you rekindle spark, creativity, and choice.

Why Four Days?
Our community asked for more—and we listened. Awakening Passion now unfolds over four days at Menla, February 26–March 1, 2026.

This expanded design means:
✨ More time to explore Tantra as a life skill. Not just an experience, but tools you can apply whether you’re in relationship or not.
✨ Clear, embodied communication. Practice boundaries, consent, and attunement until they become second nature.
✨ Holistic integration. Breathwork, connection rituals, and choice-based touch frameworks that nurture self-trust, play, and joy.
✨ Personal roadmaps. Link your values and desires into a clear integration plan you can take home.

The fourth day isn’t about more content for its own sake—it’s the gift of breathing room. Time to try, to reflect, to embody. You’ll leave not only with insights, but with confidence in your own ability to live Tantra daily—in your love, your creativity, your joy, and your connection to life itself.

And while you’re at Menla, you may also choose to rejuvenate at the world-class Dewa Spa. Between sessions, enjoy healing treatments inspired by Tibetan medicine, soak in the sauna, or simply rest in the serenity of the Catskills.

With over 30 years of marriage, Sara & Thomas Stout embody a strong sense of individuality while diving into intimacy.

“Thomas/SatchiJo and Sara are impeccable leaders in the often tender and vulnerable space of self-love and sensuality.”
~ WN from Wisconsin

Discover how meeting challenges with skill can create closeness, respect, and commitment. This retreat was designed in response to requests for deep intimacy while maintaining autonomy. Most stress and compulsion arise from playing roles that aren’t truly ours. How do you balance your need for attachment without losing yourself?

Through practical exercises, you’ll establish the trust, verticality, and boundaries that allow oneness and bliss—without self-abandonment. When you return to your true nature, tension dissolves and joy expands. And yes, we have fun while we grow.

When you return to your true existence, tension dissolves, and joy is boundless. And you’ll have fun while evolving.

In which area of your life do you want to ignite more passion?

Love? Creation? Joy? Sex? A cause that is important to you?or Life itself?

Do you want to feel more relaxed and light with your body and sexuality?

Feel the freedom that comes with acceptance and self-love.

Passion bursts forth from unrestrained desires.

Imagine being in a community that welcomes you and your true and boundless self.

Who is it for?
Open to all genders, orientations, and relationship statuses. You do not need to be in a relationship to learn Tantric tools. Come as you are and leave with practices you can use with partners, dates, friends—and with yourself.

From this seminar, you’ll take home ways to access your source of ecstatic energy and share it in a conscious way with anyone in your intimate relationships and everyday life. By learning and putting into practice the timeless wisdom of this work, you will gain the benefits from these practices over and over.

“It’s a beautiful way to start on a journey of self-exploration in a container that provides safety, fun, listening, and learning.”
Diane Divone

“Perfect weekend to really find your inner truth with or without a partner.”
Rose M.

Schedule

Each session builds on the previous to offer a beautiful progression, culminating in a Tantric ritual. The days start with meditation before breakfast. You have a 2-hour lunch break for rest, walks in the trails, or connecting with other students.
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change

Getting Here

Location icon Love Passionately, School of Mindful & Bodyful Intimacy, Menla Retreat & Dewa Spa, Pantherkill Road, Phoenicia, NY, USA

Directions

Menla is conveniently located:

Two hours north of the GW Bridge in New York City by car
Three hours by bus from New York City on Adirondack Trailways to Phoenicia, NY
Three and a half hours from Boston by car
One and a half hours from Stewart Airport in Newburgh, NY
Two hours from Albany International Airport

The closest airports are Albany International Airport in Albany, NY, and Stewart Airport in Newburgh, NY. Via public transportation, you can connect to the Adirondack Trailways bus, which will bring you to nearby Phoenicia.

You may also fly into any of the major New York City airports and take the Adirondack Trailways bus from New York City, departing from Port Authority. All New York City airports connect to Port Authority Bus Terminal via public transportation.

Accommodation

Lodging Options: Register early to secure your preferred lodging. All pricing is per person. Deluxe Queen Couples: $1,495 per person in a deluxe room with a queen bed and private bathroom (for couples) Deluxe Queen Solo: $1,645 per person in a deluxe room with a queen bed and private bathroom (for one solo) Standard Queen Couples: $1,245 per person in a private room with a queen bed and shared bathroom (for couples) Economy Full Bed Couples: $1,075 per person in a double-occupancy room with one full bed with a shared bathroom (for couples) Economy Full Bed Solo: $1,195 per person in a single-occupancy room with one full bed with a shared bathroom (for one solo) Economy Twin Beds Solos: $1,045 per person in a double-occupancy room with two twin beds with a shared bathroom (for two solos)

Accommodation
Economy Twin Beds Solos
Economy Full Bed Solo
Economy Full Bed Couples
Accommodation
Standard Queen Couples
Deluxe Queen Solo
Deluxe Queen Couples

Venue & Amenities

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Menla is a hidden oasis set in a secluded valley beside an enchanting stream in the heart of the Catskill Mountains. It is a truly unique venue and a project of Tibet House US, the Dalai Lama’s cultural center in North America, surrounded by thousands of acres of unspoiled wilderness. Immerse yourself in the magic of our pristine mountain forests. Explore hiking trails, encounter wildlife, and discover a rich tapestry of wellness experiences and activities.

Meals

Menu Types

As fresh as it comes. During the growing season, Menla's vegetarian farm-to-table menu features organic dishes straight from their gardens.

What's Included

  • 4-day immersive Tantra seminar with certified teachers
  • 3 nights accommodation at Menla Retreat Center
  • Delicious and wholesome meals from Thursday dinner through Sunday lunch
  • Guided practices in breathwork, conscious touch, and connection rituals
  • Communication exercises and personal integration planning
  • Access to Menla's amenities including Dewa Spa facilities, trails, and Catskill Mountain wilderness
  • Small group setting with personalized attention
  • Prerequisite certification for Love & Ecstasy Training Cycles

What's Not Included

  • Transportation

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