3 day Couples Retreat - €2500

5.007 reviews

Amsterdam, Nederland

Up to 2 in group

Open Dates

A preparation course valued at $109 is included with the retreat at no extra cost

Retreat Highlights

In every relationship, the other is a reflection of ourselves.
When we shift internally, we start seeing our partner differently — not because they’ve changed, but because our lens has softened. Expectations fade, hidden agendas dissolve, and love reveals itself in unexpected places: not in the other, but within. From there, behavior shifts naturally. The need for the other to be different slowly disappears.
Ayahuasca brings clarity where we’ve been blind. It illuminates our conditioning, our insecurities, and the places we hold tight without knowing. Not to fix us, but to show us. What we avoid, what hurts, what longs to be seen. Throughout the retreat, we’ll help you integrate what Mother Aya reveals, and explore how that insight can reshape the way you relate — to yourself and your partner.
We’ll dive into themes like:
Intimacy & autonomy
Sexuality & shame
Co-dependency
Jealousy & emotional honesty
Trust & spaciousness
The longing to be fully met

About this Retreat

Your Guides

Margriet

Marnix

Margriet

What always moves me is the all-embracing insights I have seen people experience time and time again. The same miracle again and again! For a long time I have wondered what I will do in this world. After being misled for years, my first step was in the right direction towards the Kashmir Yoga and Rebalancing training. I found myself there again! Ayahuasca added another substantial layer to that. During my first journey, I saw that the best way to reach people is not with my words - but with my silence. The second journey taught me what I had to overcome to make this happen. Stopping my weed smoking for example, was a prerequisite because if I want to find true unity, I had to purify myself. In my last journey, I was shown that all the preconditions were met - I was able to get started with the next step in my path. In the meantime, I have led and guided more than 200 Ayahuasca journeys and experienced that my presence offers safety for what needs to be experienced. What always moves me is the all-embracing insights I have seen people experience time and time again. The same miracle again and again!

Marnix

My name is Marnix, I'm your devoted guide and (integration) coach. After working in advertising and the music industry for many years, I overcame my addictions and anxiety, and fell in love with non-duality and plant medicine. My personal journeys with Mother Aya have been profoundly invigorating and powerful, and I just love being with people who are courageous enough to take this specific journey. I cherish the moments as a guide where I can provide safety and love and inspired words, so please feel welcome and join us at Ancient Mother!

Details of this retreat

Our couples journey begins on Tuesday afternoon. We kindly ask participants to arrive by 3 PM.

Held in a serene and intimate location surrounded by nature, the retreat offers a safe and nurturing space to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and meet your partner with fresh eyes. Through the combination of plant medicine and conscious relationship coaching, we guide you in taking full responsibility for your inner world. You’ll learn to communicate with clarity and courage, dissolve hidden expectations, and discover that wholeness always starts within.

Upon arrival, we welcome you with a warm cup of tea and begin with a gentle introduction round. There will be time to settle in, ask questions, and change into something comfortable before the ceremony begins.

On Tuesday afternoon, we’ll hold the first Ayahuasca ceremony, which typically lasts around six hours. Afterwards, we’ll offer a fresh fruit salad followed by a nourishing, home-cooked vegetarian meal. The second ceremony takes place on Wednesday. Thursday is dedicated to integration—sharing what has been seen and felt, and exploring how to bring those insights into your daily life and relationship.

Throughout the retreat, we create space for moments of deep coaching, tailored to where you are in your personal and relational process. Whether it’s one-on-one or as a couple, these sessions are an opportunity to bring unconscious patterns to light, meet emotional layers with compassion, and step into greater freedom—together.

Before the retreat, we’ll send you clear travel instructions. If needed, we’re happy to pick you up from Amsterdam Central Station.

All our couples retreats are led by a female and a male guide.

The full experience, for both of you together: €2.500 – including all sessions, ceremonies, meals, and two nights of accommodation. Read More

Schedule

Day 1:
- Meetup at our locatioin at 3 pm, introduction to Ayahuasca and the journey
- Start of first ceremony around 4 pm
- End of ceremony around 10 pm, time for fresh fruit and nourishing soup
- Bedtime

Day 2:
- Breakfast around 9 am
- Time to journal
- Sharing and coaching around 11 am
- Nature walk around 12 pm
- Start of second ceremony around 2 pm
- End of ceremony around 8 or 9 pm
- Bedtime

Day 3:
- Breakfast and integration conversation around 9 am (
- Sharing and integration around 11 am
- End of retreat around 12 pm

Note: Schedule is approximate and may change

Ancient Mother, Amsterdam, Nederland

Directions

We are located close to Amsterdam (we'll provide you with the exact location after booking), easily accessible by car. Pick-up from Amsterdam Central Station is also offered. Read More

Accommodation

You sleep in shared rooms

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Venue & Amenities

A/C in Rooms

Free Wifi

Spa

Sauna

Pool

Towels

Free Parking

Kitchen

Tour Assistance

Hot Tub

Coffee/Tea

Cafe

Restaurant

Fitness Center

Yoga Studio

Housekeeping

Bicycles For Rent

We welcome you to our peaceful location, surrounded by nature, close to Amsterdam.

Here, you can experience true peace of mind, take a leisurely stroll through the fields, and immerse yourself in nature at its most nourishing.

You’ll feel right at home, safe and comfortable, and fully ready for your transformative journey. Read More

Meals

Menu Types

Vegan

Vegetarian

Pescetarian

Ayurvedic

Includes Meat

Organic

Gluten Free

Dairy Free

Nut Free

What's Included

- 2 Ayahuasca ceremonies
- Coaching sessons during retreat
- Nature walk
- 2 Nights stay
- Fresh vegetarian food & Drink
- Towels & Linen
- Transport from Amsterdam Station
- Integration call
- Separate bedroom

What's Not Included

- Airfare

Customer Reviews

5.00 out of 5.0 average rating

AMER • Jun 18, 2024

5.0

Verified

Best Life Experience

I had the best experience, accommodation, and hospitality in the Ancient mother center. Margriet was very caring and loving and made the journey smooth and safe. I highly recommend this center for anyone who is interested in such inner journeys 🙏🙏❤️❤️ Read More

Sonja • Apr 15, 2024

5.0

Verified

Wonderful experience in a peaceful setting with experienced and loving guides

Margriet, Harold and Elisabeth were wonderful. The houseboot is a beautiful and peaceful surrounding for a first Ayahuasca experience and it felt very safe to have 3 guides available for 4-5 participants. We were all looked after in the best possible way and I would recommend them to anyone :) Thank you so much for all the love and kindness you give! <3 Read More

Anonymous • Feb 27, 2024

5.0

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Great Ceremony

Despite a slight miscommunication regarding pickup , my experience with Susan and Harold was nothing short of extraordinary. Their deep knowledge and compassionate guidance through each session led to profound insights and personal breakthroughs. The initial hiccup quickly faded as their professionalism and genuine care paved the way for a truly trans-formative journey. I highly recommend these sessions for anyone seeking meaningful personal growth.

Despite of miscommunication, giving 5 stars because of kind and professional crew.
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Anonymous • Feb 13, 2024

5.0

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A life-changing experience!

I trusted my intuition when booking this important retreat with Margriet, just based on her website - and it was everything I could have wanted! When I was there, it felt that my whole life had been working towards this weekend. So many moments and insights that will stick with me! So much love and genuine interest in my wellbeing. I felt safe and protected, will always go again. Read More

Ali • May 02, 2023

5.0

Verified

Ayahuasca Experience

This was my first time to try Ayahuasca, i planned for this for long time and i was really happy to have done it with Margriet and Martjin at Ancient Mother
They both are wonderful creatures, they know alot about what they are doing and doing it with them as i later found was really a good choice.
The experience in general and from the beginning till the end was amazing and satisfying
I recommend anyone who wants to try the Ayahuasca to consider Ancient Mother
Thank you Marg and Martjin Read More

Retreat Types

3 day Couples Retreat - €2500

Retreat Highlights

About this Retreat

Your Guides

Margriet

Marnix

Details of this retreat

Schedule

Getting Here

Directions

Accommodation

Venue & Amenities

Meals

Menu Types

What's Included

What's Not Included

Customer Reviews

AMER • Jun 18, 2024

Best Life Experience

Sonja • Apr 15, 2024

Wonderful experience in a peaceful setting with experienced and loving guides

Anonymous • Feb 27, 2024

Great Ceremony

Anonymous • Feb 13, 2024

A life-changing experience!

Ali • May 02, 2023

Ayahuasca Experience

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