7 Day Private Couples Retreat Re-Discover Your Passion
Pupukea Road, Haleiwa, HI, USA
Up to 6 in group
Open Dates
Retreat Highlights
- All-Inclusive Couples bliss in North Shore, Hawaii.
- One week in perfect balance between vacation adventures and therapy workshops led by multi-award-winning Clinical Gottman-trained relationship therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst.
- Dr. Bathurst provides 7 days of retreat, 5 of which are focused on 1-1 training and instruction with 4-5 hours of therapy daily. Leave with the education, skills and growth of 6 months worth (24 hours) of couples therapy for maximum healing and reconnection.
- Each excursion has deepened meaning to help you ground in the experience and synchronize perfectly with your goals of attunement and connection. You are guided by a local for 1-1 personalized attention. With our Aloha spirit, this place will feel like home to you. It's our job to make sure that you bring that spirit and energy back with you when you depart.
- ALL RETREATS ARE PRIVATE with Dr. Bathurst because both your clinical therapist and marital/couples retreat manager is 100% devoted to you, your partner(s) and your relationship. You deserve a retreat that is personalized to your relational needs and that's exactly what we offer. From our first orientation call to the personalization of your excursion plans, we create your experience together.
- Private accommodations are included in the pricing!
- ** The price listed is all-inclusive of accommodations, airport transfers, on-island transports, all meals, therapy workshops, personalized excursions, and more!
- This advanced therapeutic retreat specifically targets Physical, Emotional, and Intimacy enhancement through clinically-guided workshops while the excursions fulfill Experiential Intimacy needs within the relationship.
- These workshops meet the clinical standards of Gottman's 3rd phase of betrayal Repair, (re) Attachment, to heal past painful moments that pose a barrier to connection.
- We integrate a functional medicine component to the retreat experience, by ensuring there are optimal nutrients within the meal and snacks we provide during your stay, in the aromatherapy placed on the grounds, amino acids and hydration packets offered before hikes, and aphrodisiac stimulants you may taste test during workshops, etc.
About this Retreat
Your Guides
Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and a Board Certified Clinical As owner of Bathurst Family Therapy, LLC., Dr. Bathurst offers 1-1 sessions, Hawaiian Couples Retreats and intensive online programs to clients across the world. As a visionary and leader in her field, Dr. Bathurst has won multiple awards of excellence and can be found in Brainz and Giddy Magazine, CNN, BRAVO, MSNBC, OWN and podcasts discussing relationships and health.
Dr. Bathurst is a certified Integrative Medicine Specialist for Mental Health, a Certified Life Coach and a Certified PFilates Instructor for pelvic floor conditioning. She holds certifications in Kink-Conscious Therapy, Discernment Counseling, Trauma Reprocessing and Emotional Freedom Technique (Acupressure Tapping), among others that blend traditional and holistic health.
Details of this retreat
Couples bliss in North Shore, Hawaii.
One week in perfect balance between vacation adventures and therapy workshops led by multi-award-winning Clinical Gottman-trained relationship therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst.
Dr. Bathurst provides 7 days of retreat, 5 of which are focused on 1-1 training and instruction with 4-5 hours of therapy daily. Leave with the education, skills and growth of 6 months worth (24 hours) of couples therapy for maximum healing and reconnection.
Each excursion has deepened meaning to help you ground in the experience and synchronize perfectly with your goals of attunement and connection. You are guided by a local for 1-1 personalized attention. With our Aloha spirit, this place will feel like home to you. It's our job to make sure that you bring that spirit and energy back with you when you depart.
ALL RETREATS ARE PRIVATE with Dr. Bathurst because both your clinical therapist and marital/couples retreat manager is 100% devoted to you, your partner(s) and your relationship. You deserve a retreat that is personalized to your relational needs and that's exactly what we offer. From our first orientation call to the personalization of your excursion plans, we create your experience together.
Private accommodations are included in the pricing!
** The price listed is inclusive of accommodations, transport, most meals, workshops, excursions, and more!
This advanced therapeutic retreat specifically targets Physical, Emotional, and Intimacy enhancement through clinically-guided workshops while the excursions fulfill Experiential Intimacy needs within the relationship.
These workshops meet the clinical standards of Gottman's 3rd phase of betrayal Repair, (re) Attachment, to heal past painful moments that pose a barrier to connection.
We integrate a functional medicine component to the retreat experience, by ensuring there are optimal nutrients within the meal and snacks we provide during your stay, in the aromatherapy placed on the grounds, amino acids and hydration packets offered before hikes, and aphrodisiac stimulants you may taste test during workshops, etc.
One week in perfect balance between vacation adventures and therapy workshops led by multi-award-winning Clinical Gottman-trained relationship therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst.
Dr. Bathurst provides 7 days of retreat, 5 of which are focused on 1-1 training and instruction with 4-5 hours of therapy daily. Leave with the education, skills and growth of 6 months worth (24 hours) of couples therapy for maximum healing and reconnection.
Each excursion has deepened meaning to help you ground in the experience and synchronize perfectly with your goals of attunement and connection. You are guided by a local for 1-1 personalized attention. With our Aloha spirit, this place will feel like home to you. It's our job to make sure that you bring that spirit and energy back with you when you depart.
ALL RETREATS ARE PRIVATE with Dr. Bathurst because both your clinical therapist and marital/couples retreat manager is 100% devoted to you, your partner(s) and your relationship. You deserve a retreat that is personalized to your relational needs and that's exactly what we offer. From our first orientation call to the personalization of your excursion plans, we create your experience together.
Private accommodations are included in the pricing!
** The price listed is inclusive of accommodations, transport, most meals, workshops, excursions, and more!
This advanced therapeutic retreat specifically targets Physical, Emotional, and Intimacy enhancement through clinically-guided workshops while the excursions fulfill Experiential Intimacy needs within the relationship.
These workshops meet the clinical standards of Gottman's 3rd phase of betrayal Repair, (re) Attachment, to heal past painful moments that pose a barrier to connection.
We integrate a functional medicine component to the retreat experience, by ensuring there are optimal nutrients within the meal and snacks we provide during your stay, in the aromatherapy placed on the grounds, amino acids and hydration packets offered before hikes, and aphrodisiac stimulants you may taste test during workshops, etc.
Schedule
Day 1
Airport pickup
Free day to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Day 2
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
Mindfulness & Meditative Movement
Arousal Amplifier Techniques
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Yoga / PFilates - Aimed at enhancing energy and relaxation, exercise is key to allowing your body the ability to produce hormones for mood elevation and libido.
Hiking - Get some much-needed distance from the distraction of phones, work emails and social media. Work together and synchronize your pace as a couple. The breathtaking views atop an island mountain will bring you all the feels. This positive energy will be recirculated back within the coupledom.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 3
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
Somatic Bodywork & Breath-work (incorporating Tantra)
Introduction to Kink
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Snorkel - Practice your observational skills and mindfulness meditation by embracing the uncontrollability of the sea. Observe and respect the time and space of others as you swim with turtles and whales
Waimea Botanical Gardens & Waterfall - Take in breath-taking natural gardens, float hand-in-hand in the Waimea waterfall pool and appreciate beauty when you see it.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 4
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
Resentment Repair & Reconnection
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Hawaiian Luau with Dinner - These moments expand our sense of communion and belonging to others as we appreciate our history. Look toward a connective future and soak in the purity of Hawaiian culture with dance, dinner, demonstrations and music.
Sunset Picnic Dinner - Immerse yourself in the astonishment of a Hawaiian sunset, guided by a local. Lavish basket of treats and bubblies to indulge in a private, romantic picnic.
Day 5
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops:
Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment
Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Surf Lesson - Learn to trust yourself and your natural instincts in this world. The security of self-trust is what creates the foundation for our ability to trust others.
Stand Up Paddle Board - Strengthen your core for peak performance, allow your body to synchronize with the movement of the ocean rather than fight against it. This synchronization mimics the fluid movement of your partner’s body when dancing or making love.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 6
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops:
Ritualized reconnection ceremony and gift exchange
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Regroup and ground in your education and re-attachment. Soak in your experience and leave as a new self, better partner and refreshed couple.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 7
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning/ afternoon to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Transport to airport for your flight home or to another island to continue vacationing
Farm To Table Choices:
Breakfast options include:
Fresh Hawaiian fruit
Locally grown and ground coffee
Pancakes (toppings of pineapple, macadamia nuts, coconut flakes)
Eggs
Açaí bowl (toppings honey, coconut flakes, peanut butter, fresh berries, chia seeds, hemp seeds, protein powder)
Fresh-pressed juice of the day
Mimosa
Lunches:
We break for lunch each day between workshops and excursions. You're welcome to choose your own adventure for lunch. Each day we take the group out (whoever wants to join) to 1 famous food truck on-island.
We want to make sure you have the best time here and know exactly where to go for a good meal! Plus, you might get to check off a bucket list item while eating in good company. Options include:
Pupukea Grill
Giovanni's Shrimp Truck
Haleiwa Bowls
Konos (not technically a food truck but it made our list)
Da Bald Guy
Farm-to-Table Dinner Recipes:
Banana Mac Nut GF Bread
Fresh farm banana-cacao ice cream with cacao nibs and coconut flakes
Blackened fresh-caught fish topped with mango, papaya salsa
Hawaii chili, citrus chicken with coconut rice
Lamb lollipops served with crispy Brussel sprout shavings and mac-nut slivers
Fajitas in a half-cooked pineapple
Banana, quinoa pancakes with whipped Greek yogurt on top
S’mores made with 70% dark cacao (as an evening fireside snack)
Airport pickup
Free day to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Day 2
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
Mindfulness & Meditative Movement
Arousal Amplifier Techniques
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Yoga / PFilates - Aimed at enhancing energy and relaxation, exercise is key to allowing your body the ability to produce hormones for mood elevation and libido.
Hiking - Get some much-needed distance from the distraction of phones, work emails and social media. Work together and synchronize your pace as a couple. The breathtaking views atop an island mountain will bring you all the feels. This positive energy will be recirculated back within the coupledom.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 3
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
Somatic Bodywork & Breath-work (incorporating Tantra)
Introduction to Kink
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Snorkel - Practice your observational skills and mindfulness meditation by embracing the uncontrollability of the sea. Observe and respect the time and space of others as you swim with turtles and whales
Waimea Botanical Gardens & Waterfall - Take in breath-taking natural gardens, float hand-in-hand in the Waimea waterfall pool and appreciate beauty when you see it.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 4
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
Resentment Repair & Reconnection
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Hawaiian Luau with Dinner - These moments expand our sense of communion and belonging to others as we appreciate our history. Look toward a connective future and soak in the purity of Hawaiian culture with dance, dinner, demonstrations and music.
Sunset Picnic Dinner - Immerse yourself in the astonishment of a Hawaiian sunset, guided by a local. Lavish basket of treats and bubblies to indulge in a private, romantic picnic.
Day 5
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops:
Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment
Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Excursion (Choice between)
Surf Lesson - Learn to trust yourself and your natural instincts in this world. The security of self-trust is what creates the foundation for our ability to trust others.
Stand Up Paddle Board - Strengthen your core for peak performance, allow your body to synchronize with the movement of the ocean rather than fight against it. This synchronization mimics the fluid movement of your partner’s body when dancing or making love.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 6
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops:
Ritualized reconnection ceremony and gift exchange
Lunch at Famous Food Trucks
Regroup and ground in your education and re-attachment. Soak in your experience and leave as a new self, better partner and refreshed couple.
Farm-to-table Dinner
Day 7
Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning/ afternoon to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Transport to airport for your flight home or to another island to continue vacationing
Farm To Table Choices:
Breakfast options include:
Fresh Hawaiian fruit
Locally grown and ground coffee
Pancakes (toppings of pineapple, macadamia nuts, coconut flakes)
Eggs
Açaí bowl (toppings honey, coconut flakes, peanut butter, fresh berries, chia seeds, hemp seeds, protein powder)
Fresh-pressed juice of the day
Mimosa
Lunches:
We break for lunch each day between workshops and excursions. You're welcome to choose your own adventure for lunch. Each day we take the group out (whoever wants to join) to 1 famous food truck on-island.
We want to make sure you have the best time here and know exactly where to go for a good meal! Plus, you might get to check off a bucket list item while eating in good company. Options include:
Pupukea Grill
Giovanni's Shrimp Truck
Haleiwa Bowls
Konos (not technically a food truck but it made our list)
Da Bald Guy
Farm-to-Table Dinner Recipes:
Banana Mac Nut GF Bread
Fresh farm banana-cacao ice cream with cacao nibs and coconut flakes
Blackened fresh-caught fish topped with mango, papaya salsa
Hawaii chili, citrus chicken with coconut rice
Lamb lollipops served with crispy Brussel sprout shavings and mac-nut slivers
Fajitas in a half-cooked pineapple
Banana, quinoa pancakes with whipped Greek yogurt on top
S’mores made with 70% dark cacao (as an evening fireside snack)
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change
Getting Here
Bathurst Family Therapy, LLC., Pupukea Road, Haleiwa, HI, USA
Directions
Located in Sunset Hills of Pupukea, North Shore, Oahu, about a 45-minute drive north of Honolulu International airport in Oahu, HI. We will pick you up and drop you off, as all transport during your stay on island is included in your booking price!
Accommodation
Private House - Price per couple USD$12,500 The fee for this booking is ALL-inclusive of accommodations, meals, private therapeutic workshops, daily excursions, health amenities, transportation around island, airport transportation, gifts and giveaways, and personal photos of your trip for a 2-person couple during the retreat week! Private, ocean-view house on 1 acre with fruit trees to pick from, we are just a short ride from Sunset Hills down to Sharks Cove in center-town of Pupukea, North Shore for shopping, restaurants, surfing, açaí bowl stands, and gorgeous sunsets. On the North Shore, Haleiwa is a perfect blend of active Hawaii without the noise of the city. This place will feel like home by the end of your trip!
All-Inclusive 7-day Couples Retreat
Venue & Amenities
A/C in Rooms
Free Wifi
Spa
Sauna
Pool
Towels
Free Parking
Kitchen
Tour Assistance
Hot Tub
Coffee/Tea
Cafe
Restaurant
Fitness Center
Yoga Studio
Housekeeping
Bicycles For Rent
A perfect blend of immersive therapeutic growth finished with adventurous and playful excursions. You do the work to reap the rewards of a life-changing experience for your relationship but you leave feeling rejuvenated as a vacation SHOULD.
This is a couples retreat that deeply integrates physical and intimacy. we heal the individual with integrative medicine. We prioritize healing the relationship through evidence-based relationship and therapy techniques.
This is a couples retreat that deeply integrates physical and intimacy. we heal the individual with integrative medicine. We prioritize healing the relationship through evidence-based relationship and therapy techniques.
Meals
Menu Types
Vegan
Vegetarian
Pescetarian
Ayurvedic
Includes Meat
Organic
Gluten Free
Dairy Free
Nut Free
A farm-to-table menu is provided each day so that you may choose your perfect meal. We are a Celiac-friendly family and are respectful and considerate of allergies and intolerance.
What's Included
- Inclusive Therapist-Led Workshops:
- Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment
- Resentment Repair & Reconnection
- Somatic Bodywork & Breath-work (incorporating Tantra)
- Introduction to Kink
- Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment
- Mindfulness & Meditative Movement
- Arousal Amplifier Techniques
- Each excursion will be linked to a therapeutic exercise or concept, to be included at the beginning of the experience for deepened meaning and full therapeutic immersion, led by certified, local specialists.
- All excursions (land and sea) are accompanied by photography by the guides. All photos are accessible to clients in an online album at the end of their retreat week. There is an option to choose photos for print into a physical book and shipped home.
- We handle all transportation to and from each excursion. We also take care of private meal reservations for each party after each excursion. Clients are responsible for the cost of their lunch and dinner meals, however, we handle all planning, reservations, and transportation after each excursion meal so that you may enjoy the experience to the fullest.
- A home-cooked breakfast each morning is included in your package. We gather each morning with the group for a hearty breakfast and guide intention-setting for the day, emotional grounding, and creating positive headspace. Lunches and dinners are offered as a blend of experienced dining out on the North Shore and farm-to-table meals made on premises to your liking.
- During your retreat stay, you have free use of our private grounds during downtime which includes the use of our:
- Joovv Red Light Machine, Medicinal Cabinet of Essential Oils, Dr. Bathurst's Library, yoga mats, and beach essentials
What's Not Included
- Airfare, Travel Insurance
