Softening the Heart - Reflections on Compassion

Date
May 17 - 19, 2024

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

Join resident teachers of Ratna Ling for a weekend dedicated to cultivating compassion and an open heart.

Kindness. Empathy. Warmth. What if each of us could experience these qualities everyday?

In the modern world of capitalism and technology, many of us feel pressured to be firm, fixed, and rigid in our identity. We can  feel hardened and rushed by the pace at which things are expected of us. We are led to frustration, stress, and overwhelm, and not only does it become difficult for others to deal with us; we can barely deal with ourselves. How do we soften and relax? Where can we find respite?

We can start with the breath. And we can look at the world with new eyes. We can begin to see our own pain and start to care for the struggles of others. We slow down and realize why we behave the way we do, and we make sense of why others are acting the way they do. Our rigid beliefs and expectations begin to soften, and we have more grace for ourselves and others.

Compassion is a daily practice, and it gets better over time. When compassion is present, life becomes easier, relationships become sweeter, and work becomes joyful! This retreat will provide spaces for us to practice and explore compassion and how it can improve every aspect of our life.

The weekend includes:

Relaxation, breathing, and movement
Silent & guided meditation
Mantra meditation
Reading and discussion of spiritual texts
Journaling and reflection
Time in nature
Nourishing, vegetarian meals
A spacious, peaceful cottage for your rest
PLUS an Art Project with Guest Artist Tina Rath: The REQUIEM Project, a remembrance of all who have died from Covid 19

SCHEDULE (Subject to change):


FRIDAY

3:00pm Check-in

5:30pm Dinner

7:00pm  Opening Circle


SATURDAY

7:00-8:00 am Relaxation Practices (Please observe silence) - Gloria

8:00 am Breakfast

9:00-10:30 am Reflection and Discussion - Linda

10:30 am Optional Art Project with Tina Rath

12:15 pm  Lunch

1:00 pm Temple Tour

2:00 pm Optional Art Project with Tina Rath

3:30-4:00 pm  Silent Walk in Nature

4:00-5:30 pm  Mantra and Meditation - Gloria

5:30 pm Dinner

7:00-8:00 pm  Tibetan Bowls - Linda


SUNDAY

8:00-9:00 am Gentle Movement and Meditation - Gloria

9:00-10:00 am  Closing Circle

10:00 am Brunch

Getting Here

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Directions

San Francisco International and Oakland International airports are approximately three hours south of Ratna Ling by car. Alaska Airlines flies to and from Sonoma County Airport in Santa Rosa which is approximately 1.5 hours from Ratna Ling by car. Unfortunately, there are no shuttles that bring you directly to Ratna Ling, so it is best to rent a car or email us to support in coordinating a carpool with fellow retreatants.

Accommodation

14 guest cottages on 120 acres of property. Each spacious, quiet cottage has 2 private rooms, with high ceilings and a deck with a view. Cottages include jet tubs (or ADA shower), towels, deluxe linens, refrigerator, tea kettle, coffee/tea, kitchen sink/counter, diningware, dining table, and living room with a stove fireplace. Free wifi available and a landline telephone. Guests can choose to have an exclusive cottage for ONE person; a private room for ONE person in a SHARED cottage; or a cottage for TWO people. Any additional guest after TWO is $100 per person per night. Meals and classes included.

For 1 guest in Private Room
For 1 guest in Private Cottage

Venue & Amenities

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Three miles from the beautiful Sonoma coast. Organic, vegetarian meals. 120 acres of redwoods, canyons, reservoirs, and wildlife. Sacred architecture timber cottages and communal spaces. Featured stupas, gardens, and temple empowered by Tibetan Buddhist Lama Tarthang Tulku Rinpoche.

Meals

Menu Types

All of our meals are organic and vegetarian, made with love and care. We provide homemade yogurt and granola for breakfast. Lunches and dinners always include salads or salad bar. Each meal is self-served on a buffet table.

Customer Reviews

4.85 out of 5.0 average rating

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Relaxing every time!
This place is just amazing. The land is deeply imbued with peacefulness and quiet, the staff are always friendly and full of wisdom, food and accommodations are over the top amazing. I always leave feeling a deeper awareness of my true nature and sense of inner peace. THANK YOU!

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Wonderful, relaxing time
Ratna Ling is a beautiful serene space for you to connect with yourself and others. The cabins are comfortable and spacious and surrounded by beautiful forest. Beautiful classrooms spaces to learn. The food was delicious and healthy. Enjoyed our yoga retreat and the meditation class very much.

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Absolutely glorious
Our long weekend at Ratna Ling was a divine experience. Blessings abound in many forms at this wonderful site: natural beauty and peace and silent simplicity! The kind welcoming of staff makes it the perfect setting for healing on many levels. We’re so very grateful for being able to repeatedly visit Ratna Ling~🙏🏻✨

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Simply WONDERFUL
If a person would like to experience the peace which passes all understanding or the beauty of silence, then they should visit Ratna Ling! The subtle healing ❤️‍🩹 that occurs among the pine trees in between turkey visits is nearly indescribable. If you visit once, you will visit again…Its truly a very special place. Staff is warm and friendly. The food is always delicious and nutritious. What a blessing it is to be at Ratna Ling….

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Always a Delight
My third return to Ratna Ling. The entire weekend was perfect. Nikki Estrada led an educational and meditative yoga retreat.

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