Valle de Bravo, State of Mexico, Mexico
Up to 15 in group
Open Dates
About this Retreat
Alexa Iya Soro,
MA Holistic Counselor
CAGS Expressive ARTS therapy
LMHC-A
Medicine Facilitator & Psychotherapist
With a skilled therapeutic and heart-centered approach, Alexa empowers you with tools and practices essential for your continued growth and self-discovery through her work with ancestral medicine, talk therapy, somatic and mindfulness practices, Alexa utilizes Depth Psychology, Internal Family Systems, Relational/Cultural Therapy, and Yin Yoga Therapy, incorporating sacred medicine work and techniques such as nervous system entrainment, neuroscience-psychoeducation, and the appropriate implementation of mythology, ritual, and ancestral connection.
Alexa holds a Master's degree in Holistic Counseling & Eco-Expressive Arts and a Bachelor's degree in Humanistic Psychology from Brown University. For over 10 years, Alexa has been on the path of ritual healing, grief processing, and plant medicine, studying under world class teachers from both indigenous and western approaches.
Areas of Expertise
-Psychedelic Integration & Ceremony Preparation
-Grief Companionship
-Ceremony & Ritual Facilitation
Credentials
- 5-MeO-DMT facilitation training, Tandava
- Brown University - BA Psychology
- Naropa - Buddhist Applications of Therapy
- Salve Regina University - Masters Holistic Counseling
- Internal Family Systems Certified
- Ancestral Healing Facilitator Training with Daniel Foor
- 200 Hour Yoga Teacher Training
- Cacao Facilitation Training
Luke DeStefano, IHP2
Co-founder, Ceremony Facilitator, Meditation & Breathwork Guide, Qi Gong Adept
Luke is an Integrative Health Practitioner, plant medicine retreat facilitator, and ceremony guide, with over 20 years of experience in creating safe spaces for personal and collective healing. His service in the healing arts is guided by a passion for empowering individuals to discover the innate wisdom and untapped potential of their own body, mind, and spirit.
In addition to his dedication to health and wellness, Luke serves as a psychedelic preparation and integration guide, ceremonial musician, Kambo facilitator, massage therapist, and breathwork guide. He is also an initiate of the Dharma Mountain lineage of Mahayana Buddhism. His passion for the sacred arts has led him to immersive studies in Thailand, Vietnam, China, Laos, Nepal, Costa Rica, and Mexico.
Areas of Expertise
- Ceremony Facilitation & Musicianship
- Holistic Health & Wellness
- Meditation, Breathwork, QI Gong & Buddhist Studies
- Music & Sound Healing
Credentials
- Over 20 years experience in ceremony facilitation & apprentieship
- Initiate of the Dharma Mountain lineage of South Vietnamese Buddhism
- Breathwork Facilitator training (Wim Hoff)
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Details of this retreat
Bufo Alvarius & 5-MeO-DMT Private Retreat — Valle de Bravo, México
Sacred Counsel - Integrative Psychedelic Support
Overview
Some work requires more than one sitting.
This private, one-on-one retreat offers two full ceremony days with Bufo Alvarius and 5-MeO-DMT — held at our homestead in the highlands of Valle de Bravo, México. It is designed for those who are ready to go deeper, to allow the medicine to work across multiple layers, and to give the nervous system the time and space it needs to open, release, and integrate fully.
Everything about this retreat — the dosage, the sequence, the setting, the music, the integration support — is built entirely around you and your intention — whether that's expansion, trauma catharsis, or deeper self-knowing. Every element — dosage, ceremonial setting, preparation, integration, and the ceremony itself — is curated around what you bring.
What to Expect
Arrival (Night Before)
Settle in: We greet you with an orientation circle, organic dinner, and begin to drop into the space with a Turkish Steam Sauna. Add on Massage available for extra fee (75 usd)
Time to rest, ground, and prepare for the days ahead.
Ceremony Day 1
Morning Practice and guided movement to support your nervous system regulation and preparation.
We work in the morning, before caffeine or food. Following a thorough preparation conversation, you will work with up to three doses — beginning where your nervous system is and moving forward only with your full, informed consent. We work with both the Pure Molecule (vaporized 5-MeO-DMT) for precise somatic work, and Bufo Alvarius for medium to full-release experiences.
The first ceremony often clears the surface — what the system has been waiting to release. First time participants get to experience familiarity with the medicine, what it feels like in the body, how to ask for support and how to move with the medicine.
Music (live and recorded) is woven throughout.
Ceremony Day 2
Morning Practice and guided movement to support your nervous system regulation and preparation.
The second ceremony builds on what opened in the first. For those working with titration, this day may move toward a fuller release. For those working with layering, it supports deeper somatic and expressive work while the personality remains more present. Titrating down is also available on this day for prior clients or those with a longer relationship with the medicine. Every step is consensual. You will never be pushed further than you have agreed to go.
Integration Day
Morning Practice and guided movement to support your nervous system regulation.
The day after the final ceremony is dedicated entirely to integration — somatic work, psychological support, and the unhurried time needed to begin making sense of what emerged across both days. This is not optional. It is half the retreat.
Send-Off Morning
We close with a shared breakfast, grounded conversation, and a clear path forward for continued integration at home.
Your container at La Fuente
We work with two forms of medicine: the Pure Molecule (5-MeO-DMT vaporized), which allows precise lower-dose somatic work, and Bufo alvarius, the animal medicine, for medium to full-release doses.
Why We Practice Preparation & Integration And Build Integration Day into Retreat
After a powerful 5-MeO-DMT experience — where the boundaries of self dissolve and you encounter vast, non-dual awareness — the real work begins: integration. Integration means allowing the insight, clarity, and awakening from the journey to gradually take root in your human life — through your relationships, habits, body, and choices.
But this doesn't happen automatically. The medicine doesn't give you anything you don't already have. We must develop. It is not a magic bullet... but it is a wonderful potentiator for your own self-growth.
Because the Pure Molecule can dissolve ego boundaries and even the felt sense of a separate self, embodied cognition practices are crucial for re-establishing internal orientation, processing ineffable insight, and supporting nervous system regulation — not to mention engaging the remarkable neuroplasticity opened by the medicine with evidence-based mindfulness techniques.
**Two Intentions, Two Paths**
People come to this medicine for one of two fundamental reasons:
**Catharsis** — whether somatic trauma release or an incomplete somatic gestalt (in the tradition of Peter Levine's Somatic Experiencing, the body holds unfinished survival responses that can finally complete). This is medicine as a portal for the nervous system to discharge what it's been carrying.
**Gnosis** — direct experience of the divine, non-dual awareness, or what mystics across traditions have called union. Not belief about the infinite, but contact with it.
**How We Work with Dosage**
Before the medicine, we discuss confirm dosage together, map out your experience with up to three doses, and you retain full informed consent throughout. We also speak openly about touch, your trauma history, and the role of physical contact in ceremony.The importance of consensual, calibrated dosing This medicine demands respect. Because the secretion of the Bufo toad is a complex natural matrix — not a single isolated compound — potency varies.
A dose that opens one person gently may overwhelm another entirely.
At La Fuente, there is no standard dose. Every retreat begins with a thorough intake and preparation conversation. We start where you are, honoring your history, your nervous system, your intention. You may begin with a threshold or sub-perceptual dose and move from there — or, for those who are prepared and ready, enter a full ceremonial experience.
Consent is not a formality here. It is the foundation of everything. You will never be pressured, rushed, or dosed beyond your agreement. The medicine works best when the participant is present, willing, and held in a container of complete safety and trust.
There are two primary approaches to dosing:
**Titration** — working incrementally toward a full release, mindful that doses stack. Each step is felt and integrated before moving forward, allowing the system to open gradually. Alternatively you can titrate down, this is only on the second day of ceremony work (reserved for prior clients or people that have a longer relationship with the medicine)
**Layering** — staying within a particular dosage range so that the personality remains relatively present. This supports extended somatic work, vocal activation, and expression — the kind of deep but grounded inner movement that becomes possible when you're not fully dissolved.
**About us**
Sacred Counsel was founded by Luke and Alexa — a ceremonial musician and a psychotherapist — with a combined background spanning indigenous traditions, somatic psychology, and over 20 years in the medicine space. Their approach is shamanic in spirit but not dogmatic in form. We operate with a lens of spirituality, animism, and also can offer neuroscience education on what is happening during your experience and during your integration phase.
Music is woven into the work — recorded or live, with my husband Luke as ceremonial musician. If you want specific instruments, or if your own cultural and creative background matters to the soundscape, we cover that in your prep session.
**Bufo Alvarius (5-MeO-DMT) — La Medicina del Sapo**
What is this medicine?
Bufo Alvarius is the common name for the Sonoran Desert toad (Incilius alvarius), native to northwestern Mexico and the Sonoran Desert. Its parotid glands produce a secretion containing 5-MeO-DMT (5-methoxy-N,N-dimethyltryptamine) — one of the most potent naturally occurring psychedelic compounds known. Unlike its cousin DMT, which tends to produce vivid visions and narrative experiences, 5-MeO-DMT delivers a profoundly non-visual, non-dual state — often described as a complete dissolution of the ego and a merging with pure awareness, love, and universal consciousness. The experience typically lasts 15–30 minutes and has been described by participants as among the most significant of their lives. The secretion is ethically collected by gently milking the glands without harm to the toad, then dried and vaporized in ceremony.
Why Mexico — and why Valle de Bravo?
Mexico is one of the few places in the world where Bufo Alvarius medicine is unscheduled and legally practiced. Unlike the United States and most of Europe, where 5-MeO-DMT carries strict prohibitions, Mexico has been the home of this medicine's modern ceremonial tradition, drawing seekers from around the world to work with experienced facilitators in proper containers. La Fuente operates within this framework, in the highlands of Valle de Bravo, Estado de México — a place of natural beauty, clean air, and deep stillness that supports profound inner work.
What the research says
Peer-reviewed studies have found that a single session with 5-MeO-DMT is associated with meaningful reductions in depression, anxiety, and PTSD symptoms, increased life satisfaction, and enhanced mindfulness — effects that persist at 4-week follow-up. Researchers at institutions including Johns Hopkins and Maastricht University have identified this compound as a promising candidate for treating trauma and treatment-resistant mental health conditions.
Who this is for — and who it is not
This medicine is not for everyone. Contraindications include a history of psychosis, schizophrenia, certain cardiac conditions, and current use of SSRIs, MAOIs, or lithium. Our intake process is thorough precisely because your safety is the first priority. If this medicine is not right for you, we will tell you.
Upon booking, I will reach out to you and we will complete the following preparation steps:
1) Medical Intake completion and medical clearance
2) Intake session and Introductory Call With Alexa & Luke
4) Preparation Session with Alexa
5) Final Date Confirmation and Travel Support
6)Retreat
7) Two Integration Sessions with Alexa (utilized within 2 months of Retreat Start Date)
Important Notes
Please do not book flights until your retreat has been fully confirmed. Do not book return travel within 24 hours of your final ceremony.
A journey with Sacred Counsel is not an experience. It's a path.
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