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Meeting Anger with Compassion

Date
October 2 - 4, 2026

About this Retreat

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Details of this retreat

We are honored to have Gretchen Donovan of San Diego back as a guest teacher at Ratna Ling! Choose a 2 or 3-night option.
What if you could use your anger wisely? What if you could make friends with anger?
This weekend retreat offers a supportive space to explore the nature of anger through meditation, gentle yoga, and subtle energy movement, all grounded in Buddhist philosophy. Anger is considered one of the mind’s poisons—an experience that can cloud perception, harden the heart, and obscure joy, like a veil of dark smoke. Through mindful inquiry and embodied practice, we will explore how meeting anger with understanding rather than resistance allows it to be transformed into wisdom.
The retreat will include seated meditation, gentle and accessible yoga, and subtle energy practices designed to soften the body, calm the nervous system, and cultivate clarity. In addition, there will be two guided sessions of Feeding Your Demons, the Five-Step Process created by Lama Tsultrim Allione. In this tradition, a “demon” is understood as anything that obstructs the achievement of freedom. As Lama Tsultrim teaches, there is no greater devil than fixation on a solid self; until this ego-fixation is severed, all other demons wait with open mouths. Through this skillful method, participants are invited to meet inner obstacles with compassion, awareness, and courage, opening the way toward greater freedom, insight, and joy.
Optional Thursday arrival: intimate gathering of community, walking the grounds, morning meditation and poetry reading. 


To learn more about Gretchen, visit Sila Yoga.

COVID POLICY: For your safety and ours, we require that all guests be vaccinated against Covid and provide proof of a negative covid test result within 48 hours of arrival.  We wish to provide peace of mind for all of our residents and guests.
Schedule (subject to change)
FRIDAY

3-4:00pm: Check-in
4:30 pm: Welcome and Introductions
5:30pm: Dinner
7:00pm: Guided Practice

SATURDAY

7:00am: Skygazing and noble silence
8:00am Breakfast
9:30am  Teachings
10:45am  Gentle Yoga
Break
11:00am  Teachings/ Art and Mandala offerings
12:15pm  Lunch
2:00pm Gentle yoga
4:30pm Teaching
5:30pm  Dinner
7:00pm Dance Party & Evening Council

SUNDAY


7:00 am Skygazing and Noble Silence
8:00am   Gentle yoga and Closing circle
10am     Brunch
12noon  Checkout and Farewell

For directions to Ratna Ling - Ratna Ling Retreat Center 35755 Hauser Bridge Rd Cazadero, CA 95421
Accommodations are beautiful lux cabins



ADDITIONAL DETAILS

Transportation to/from Ratna Ling is NOT included - carpooling encouraged
All bookings are NON-REFUNDABLE. Should you wish to cancel your stay with us, Ratna Ling Retreat Center requires 30 days' notice for a full credit to be TRANSFERRED to a future retreat within 1 year of original booking.
Each cottage includes TWO private rooms with queen beds, large dining & living area, gas fireplace,
spacious deck, jacuzzi tub, linens/towels/hand soap, kitchenette with tea & coffee, complimentary wireless internet. Towels and hand soap are provided.
vegetarian meals are served during our weekend together.

What people are saying about Gretchen's retreats:



“Gretchen Donovan is an amazing soul who shines on everyone and make them feel special.  The circle sharing ceremony not he last night ... helped me in so many ways..”
“It was a much needed reset to get back to who I am. The teachings were amazing and east for a newcomer  to understand. The meditations were new to me and something I will practice at home." 
“I loved having time to myself to reflect on my life and where I am going. Thank you Ratna Ling."


“I liked Gretchen's expert guidance, connection with others, learning more about the mandala and associated practices.”
“Good info, good pace, well planned and executed with spontaneous bouts of unexpected joy.”
“Being able to move at my own pace is a luxury. And of course the food was delicious."



 

Getting Here

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Directions

San Francisco International and Oakland International airports are approximately three hours south of Ratna Ling by car. Alaska Airlines flies to and from Sonoma County Airport in Santa Rosa which is approximately 1.5 hours from Ratna Ling by car. Unfortunately, there are no shuttles that bring you directly to Ratna Ling, so it is best to rent a car or email us to support in coordinating a carpool with fellow retreatants.

Accommodation

14 guest cottages on 120 acres of property. Each spacious, quiet cottage has 2 private rooms, with high ceilings and a deck with a view. Cottages include jet tubs (or ADA shower), towels, deluxe linens, refrigerator, tea kettle, coffee/tea, kitchen sink/counter, diningware, dining table, and living room with a stove fireplace. Free wifi available and a landline telephone. Guests can choose to have an exclusive cottage for ONE person; a private room for ONE person in a SHARED cottage; or a cottage for TWO people. Any additional guest after TWO is $100 per person per night. Meals and classes included.

Private Room for 1 guest in Shared Cottage, includes meals and classes

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Three miles from the beautiful Sonoma coast. Organic, vegetarian meals. 120 acres of redwoods, canyons, reservoirs, and wildlife. Sacred architecture timber cottages and communal spaces. Featured stupas, gardens, and temple empowered by Tibetan Buddhist Lama Tarthang Tulku Rinpoche.

Meals

Menu Types

All of our meals are organic and vegetarian, made with love and care. We provide homemade yogurt and granola for breakfast. Lunches and dinners always include salads or salad bar. Each meal is self-served on a buffet table.

Customer Reviews

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Ratna Ling - January Book Club - Caring
The Caring book club was a thoughtful way to start the year! The time was organized, well moderated and brought forth insightful conversations. Much appreciated.

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Beautiful setting
The rooms are beautiful and spacious. Comfortable beds. Deer frolicking. Surrounded by trees. The food was amazingly good.

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Rest in the Redwoods
Beautiful location, programs, accommodations and people. Step away from your routine and find the space and encouragement to be yourself. Thank you!

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Beautiful setting for relaxing experience
Ratna Ling offers a gorgeous scenery among the redwoods and valleys to enjoy time to reset. Food is always flavourful and staff is very kind. My only concern was that I thought we were too many participants in the yoga room to feel comfortable. Would definitely recommend this place!

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Highly Recommend
The grounds and lodging are lovely. The food is clean, healthy and very tasty. I attended a new year meditation retreat with Linda and Maria leading. It was thoughtful and informative. We learned some contemplative as well as physical meditation techniques. Right amount of sitting time, learning time, and free time. The Tour of the Temple was very interesting and special. The Center has a really peaceful and welcoming vibe. I didn't know what to expect and was really pleased and grateful. Really a great way to start the new year. I highly recommend Ratna Ling to anyone who hasn't been. I will definitely return!

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