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IN PRAISE OF LISTENING: Reading, Writing, Drawing, Slowing Down

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375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States
Date
Jul 10 - 12, 2026

About this Retreat

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"Many an old story begins with the words, 'Long ago, when animals could speak...' Perhaps the corollary would be just as good an opening... 'Long ago, when people could listen.'"
- Lyanda Lynn Haupt

The word “listen” derives from the Old English hylsnan which means, quite simply, “to pay attention.” But in recent years such generous, expansive listening has been increasingly under siege. Our eyes are seduced by our dazzling screens; our ears plugged up with plastic buds. We listen to podcasts at the gym; to audiobooks while driving; to guided meditation apps as we try to soothe ourselves to sleep. Little by little, we risk losing our ability to listen deeply to one another and the natural world, and even to ourselves.

“Slow down a moment! Stop and listen!”

When we take the time to listen, not only with our ears, but with the fullness of our heart and mind and spirit, it becomes possible to recover the curious children we once were: lively and engaged. Christian McEwen is the author of In Praise of Listening: A Gathering of Stories (Bauhan Publishing, 2023). For years now, she has been leading workshops with a focus on just such dedicated listening.

Over the course of the weekend, we will explore the act of listening in a variety of ways, reclaiming that very ordinary joy, learning to braid it into each detail of our daily lives.

We will start by recalling childhood memories of sound, refining them further through both words and images. We will also practice deep listening (“hearing one another into speech”) and take the time to attend to natural sounds, going for a mediative “sound walk,” and listening to silence. There will also be the opportunity to enjoy the gorgeous acres of the Menla campus, both alone and in company, pausing at intervals to listen to the land, and returning home with a nourishing acoustic gift.



Schedule:

Friday, July 10

3 - 6 pm Arrival and Check-in
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm A brief introduction to In Praise of Listening
A reading from the book, followed by Q & A
Assignment: begin to remember childhood memories of sound

Saturday, July 11

8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Morning Program
session one: human forms of listening
12:30 - 130 pm Lunch
2 - 5:30 pm Afternoon Program
session two: listening to the non-human world
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Evening Program
session three: sounds that exist and do not exist, comfort and do not comfort

Sunday, July 12

7 - 11 am Check out of Rooms
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Morning Program
session four: silence as an experience of merging inner and outer
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch and Departure

*Please note this schedule is subject to change.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, 375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States

Accommodation

Deluxe Queen

Accommodation
Deluxe Queen Room with Queen Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning All Rooms in Lhasa are Handicap-Accessible, Including Four Rooms with Wheelchair Accessible Showers. Deluxe Queen Rooms are Available in Lhasa Inn and Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Standard Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Menla Private Queen Room with Queen Bed and Shared Bathroom Public Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available This lodging type is not ADA Compliant Private Queen Rooms with Shared Bathroom are Available in Thimpu House, Panther Cottage and Potala House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Standard Double Full - Shared bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Deluxe Double Room with Two Full Beds and Shared Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This lodging type is not ADA Compliant. Please note that due to the stairs we recommend that guests with mobility issues book other accommodations. Deluxe Double Rooms with Shared Bathrooms are Located in Thimphu * Please note rates include meals and accommodations. This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You a Roommate if You Do Not Register with One.

Economy Premium Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Premium Single Room with a Queen or Full Bed and Shared Bathroom Up to 10 guests share two large bathrooms. Each bathroom has two shower stalls and two toilets. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Upper Level Of Conference Center. All calls are free of charge This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Single Room with a Twin Bed and Shared Bathroom Bathroom is Shared with One to Six Other Guests on Your Floor. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Customer Reviews

4.77 out of 5.0 average rating

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Retreat at Menla
My retreat experience at Menla was wonderful.

The teacher was knowledgeable, loving, deeply committed to the path, well-spoken, prepared, and generous with course materials and the overall transmission.

The property, all of the meals, and rooms were handled with care and intentionally set.

The spa facility was gorgeous, but my experience with the practitioners were that they needed more training, to truly support guests. I was told I could have a bath and choose between three types. I was very excited to book in the bath that had local junipers from the area. The next day, leading up to this bath I excitedly told sangha this was what I was heading into, to steep in a bath with elements from the local forest, and how special that could be. When I showed up to my appointment, I was told that bath was actually not available and I should choose between two others. It was frustrating to choose one the day before, and show up 24 hours later to find out that type should not have been offered - I wished the staff had reached out to me at least several hours before, to tell me. I was also supposed to have a massage and was told by the front desk that I could customize that 60 minutes however I wanted on the day, however when I arrived at the session my therapist had a very anxious energy and when she asked about my requests I said I would like some reflexology in my hands and feet during the Swedish massage session, integrated in. She scolded me, saying she would touch my hands and feet but that if I had wanted any reflexology I should have booked the 90 minutes session she offered. I thought perhaps I misunderstood and I gave benefit of the doubt, trying to explain again to her I only wanted reflexology integrated at parts during, but then she told me this again stating I should have booked another reflexology session and she was only going to touch my hands and feet during - once I realized she was very caught up in another story... I quickly cancelled the massage, not wanting to get on the table with this sort of energy exchange. And I left the property to go take my flight home. The next day, I booked a massage at a wellness center in California, and that person provided the combo massage with reflexology, and with ease, very simply without any issues, as I had received with many other gifted massage practitioners countless times across other spas over the years…

To sum it up, Menla itself is a wonderful place, beautifully designed, intentionally curated, the food was prepared with so much love and intention, and the teachers gifts far surpassed anything I could have ever hoped for. I think there is room to improve the spa building experience, however the rest of the experience is wonderful, and I would absolutely return again. It is very special indeed, I felt truly held by the land and the teachings.

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Excellent Clear Light Yoga Nidra Retreat
What an incredible weekend and experience at Menla!! I took a Yoga Nidra workshop and it was fantastic.
Michelle is an incredible teacher, she offers so much wisdom, insight and love.
Menla is my absolute favorite place for retreats.
The surroundings are gorgeous, the food is delicious, the staff is incredible and I have enjoyed so many wonderful weekends/retreats. Get a treatment at the spa, it is divine.
There is no better place to retreat, reset and renew.

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Peace and serenity
I really enjoyed my stay at menla. I slept well and I liked the classes. The grounds were beautiful too. It reminded me of college. I liked the food and the people were nice too. I think it’s a great place to go if you want to unplug and get away from it all.

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A long weekend retreat in February
The setting was beautiful and the food was healthy, delicious, and plentiful! The housing and meeting rooms were beautifully colored and airy.
The staff was helpful and pleasant, but didn't overwhelm.
I would definitely come back to Menla for another retreat.

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Love my time at Menla
This was my second visit to Menla and it did not disappoint. The accommodations are lovely and comfy, the food is delish, the staff super friendly and the grounds are simply breathtaking. The retreat, Healing with the Elements: Breathwork, Yoga & Nervous System Reset, and the programs led by Sheila and Jackie were amazing and a little life-changing :)
I spent the whole weekend filled with peace and serenity. I cannot wait to go back!
Colleen R.

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