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Becoming Peacemakers: A Tibetan Sacred Arts Retreat

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Phoenicia, NY 12464, USA
Date
December 2 - 6, 2026

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

Cultivating Inner Peace Through Meditation, Sacred Art, Dialogue, and Compassion
The Mandala Path: A Journey to Peace with the Monks of Sera Jey

Join six Tibetan Buddhist monks from Sera Jey Monastery in India for an unforgettable five-day journey into the heart of peace. At the center of this immersive experience is the creation of a sacred sand mandala, a living map of the awakened mind made visible, where participants meet the energy and image of peace and compassion firsthand. The mandala traces the journey itself: encountering the Five Buddha Families and, through them, joining the wider family of peacemakers.

The Steps of Liberation are the skills and tests learned along the way. Through chanting, silent meditation, traditional dance, peace circles, and dialogue, participants will explore how inner transformation becomes compassionate action grounded in the Five Buddha Families, the Twelve Steps of Liberation, the Four Noble Truths, and the Noble Eightfold Path. A special screening of Mission: Joy offers a moving reflection on the friendship between His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu.

On the final day, before the mandala's dissolution, an empowerment ceremony based on the mandala's central Buddha image will be offered. The ceremony blesses everyone present and empowers them to carry the message of peace forward. As the completed mandala is ceremonially dissolved and released, guests carry its reminder that peace cultivated withi naturally moves from our hearts into family, community, and the wider world.



Schedule:

Wednesday, December 2

3 - 5:30 pm Guest Arrival, Registration & Room Check-in
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Opening Ceremony: Becoming Peacemakers

Welcome, introduction of the monks, sacred chanting, retreat orientation, and guided meditation for peace



Thursday, December 3

7 - 8 am Morning Meditation & Sacred Chanting
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 - 10:30 am Opening Prayers & Consecration of the Mandala Space
10:30 am - 12 pm Beginning the Sacred Sand Mandala
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
1:30 - 3 pm Rest, Spa Time, Nature Walks, or Personal Reflection
3 - 5:30 pm Mandala Creation & Teaching: Inner Peace as the Foundation for World Peace
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Guided Meditation & Peace Circle: What Does It Mean to Be a Peacemaker?

Friday, December 4

7 - 8 am Morning Meditation, Mantra & Sacred Chanting
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Mandala Creation & Teaching: Compassion and Interdependence
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
1:30 - 3 pm Optional Film Screening: Mission: Joy

Finding Happiness in Troubled Times (dir. Peggy Callahan & Louie Psihoyos) offered alongside rest, spa time, and nature walks for those who do not wish to attend


3 - 5:30 pm Mandala Creation, Small-Group Dialogue & Deep Listening Practice
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Reconciliation and the Courage to Listen: Teaching, guided contemplation, questions, and community dialogue

Saturday, December 5

7 - 8 am Morning Meditation & Prayers for Healing
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Mandala Creation & Teaching: Transforming Difficulty into the Path
12:30–1:30 pm Lunch
1:30 - 3 pm Rest, Spa Time, Nature Walks, or Personal Reflection
3 - 4:30 pm Completion of the Sacred Sand Mandala
4:30–5:30 pm Sacred Dance, Ritual Music & Contemplative Movement
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Becoming a Peacemaker: Closing teaching, dedication, candlelight meditation, and prayers for world peace

Sunday, December 6

7 - 8 am Final Morning Meditation & Sacred Chanting
8 - 9 am Breakfast & Guest Room Check-out
9:30 - 10:15 am Final Teaching: Carrying the Retreat into Daily Life
10:15 - 11 am Mandala Viewing, Blessing & Closing Prayers
11 am - 12 pm Ceremonial Dissolution of the Sand Mandala
12 - 12:30 pm Peace Procession & Offering of the Sand
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch & Departure

*Please note this schedule is subject to change.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, Phoenicia, NY 12464, USA

Accommodation

Deluxe Queen

Accommodation
Deluxe Queen Room with Queen Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning All Rooms in Lhasa are Handicap-Accessible, Including Four Rooms with Wheelchair Accessible Showers. Deluxe Queen Rooms are Available in Lhasa Inn and Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Standard Double Full - Shared bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Deluxe Double Room with Two Full Beds and Shared Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This lodging type is not ADA Compliant. Please note that due to the stairs we recommend that guests with mobility issues book other accommodations. Deluxe Double Rooms with Shared Bathrooms are Located in Thimphu * Please note rates include meals and accommodations. This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You a Roommate if You Do Not Register with One.

Standard Double Twin - Shared bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Deluxe Double Room with Two Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This lodging type is not ADA Compliant. Please note that due to the stairs we recommend that guests with mobility issues book other accommodations. Deluxe Double Rooms with Shared Bathrooms are Located in Thimphu * Please note rates include meals and accommodations. This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You a Roommate if You Do Not Register with One.

Economy Premium Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Premium Single Room with a Queen or Full Bed and Shared Bathroom Up to 10 guests share two large bathrooms. Each bathroom has two shower stalls and two toilets. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Upper Level Of Conference Center. All calls are free of charge This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Single Room with a Twin Bed and Shared Bathroom Bathroom is Shared with One to Six Other Guests on Your Floor. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Double - Shared Bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Standard Double with Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom The bathroom is Shared with other rooms on the same floor. High-speed Wi-Fi is available in the room. Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations * Please note: this is an open door policy room, meaning there are no keys to lock the door (we have lockers you can use at Lhasa if needed) * This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You Roommates if You Do Not Register with others

Economy Quad - Shared Bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Standard Quad Room with Quad Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom Accommodations Fee Includes All Meals. High speed Wi-Fi is available in the room. Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations * Please note: this is an open door policy room, meaning there are no keys to lock the door (we have lockers you can use at Lhasa if needed) * This booking is for one bed in a quad shared room: We May Assign You Roommates if You Do Not Register with others.

Customer Reviews

4.85 out of 5.0 average rating

5.0
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Quiet, peaceful, relaxing and rejuvenating
Menla is a wonderful location to attend a retreat or create your own retreat. The forest location is rejuvenating all on its own, but then you add in the delicious food, kind staff, and relaxing bedrooms, and you certainly can find yourself unwinding. I signed up for a yoga retreat, not knowing the instructors or anyone in the class. Most attendees in my retreat were already friends or followers of the instructors, but that didn't affect the quality of the experience for me. You can be a solo retreatant and have an amazing experience there. I also was concerned about the shared bathroom experience as the rooms with private baths were all sold out, but it was never an issue and the bathrooms were pristine. Lastly, I also scheduled spa services and found the practitioner to be very skilled and professional. The spa is a lovely place to spend the day drinking tea, reading books, lounging, and enjoying the small sauna areas. The 10-headed shower was delightful! If you are looking for a beautiful and natural setting, Menla is the perfect place to go!

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ASKing age for roombooking
I was there with a retreat. When booking, it asks for my age and my preference (female or male) for my bathroommate, since I am in a single room and share a bathroom with another person. I chose to share with a female. First, I shared the bathroom with a couple. I didn't realize I would be sharing my bathroom with two other people, and that one of them would be male. At one point, as I was leaving the bathroom, I accidentally ran right into the male with just a towel on. Because of personal reasons, this was very challenging . Second, asking for a person's age when booking a room should be optional, or not asked at all. I can see that I was profiled and was in housing with people around my age and order. This could have been totally by coincidence.

Overall, I found the property and the experience to be wonderful. All the staff are truly loving and caring. Thank you!

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A wonderful week
A magical time in the Catskills! The grounds were stunning, the facilities were great and the food was very, very good. Also, the staff were friendly and helpful. I loved my time there. The only disappointment was the spa, in that I had two appointments cancelled. I understand that staffing issues happen but I felt the level of service was not comparable to the rest of the facility although I did go on a guided hike and it was great.

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Amazingly tranquil space for a retreat with great amenities
Just got home from another amazing retreat at Menla.

The lecture hall is such a great space and the audio / visual people do such an amazing job of stage managing the room with multiple cameras and mics that it makes for a great educational tool to be able to go back to such a well produced recording after. The room is large, with comfortable seating and environment.

The food in the dining hall in the Main Inn building is vegetarian and is awesome, even for omnivores like myself - didn't miss the meat at all for the week.

My room this time was in the same building as the lecture hall and was very nicely done and comfortable with an armoire, queen bed, desk and chair. My previous room had a sink and mirror, this one did not. But that was fine. Previous room in another building shared a bathroom with one other room, this one shared a bathroom with 10 other rooms, but it was a multi person bathroom with two shower stalls, two sinks and one toilet stall for men. So with a mix of genders in the rooms, you only share with about half the rooms. It worked out well. Finally, I used the recommended car service to go to and from the resort and it worked out great. The only issue with that is that the roads around campus are gravel and so if you get dropped at the Inn and walk to the Convention Center like I did with a roller bag, that can be a longish, bumpy walk while most people would be driving. No biggie, just something to keep in mind.

The spa is also amazing. The retreat I was at gave you ample free time to explore the resort and surrounding areas for hikes, etc. I got two awesome massages and the steam room and sauna in the men's room were very nice along with an automated shower that had several massage settings to choose from as well.

All in all, a great educational experience at Menla with one of my favorite Buddhist teachers, with great accommodations, great food, and great people in a beautiful setting in the Catskill Mountains of New York.

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Dzogchen Retreat with Dr. Nida
As always I LOVED the retreat. Dr. Nida was amazing and I suggest you have him as often as possible. I was a commuter for this retreat so no comments on lodging. The food was excellent and I felt so good after eating there for 3 days. Loved the variety of tastes, menu. The supporting tech folks were great and the events felt well supported. Parking got tight at times and it may be worth considering widening roads and lots in areas to handle some of that overflow at peak loads. having more availability of massages during peak loads would be beneficial. for 5 day retreats i would suggest that you consider not having such larger breaks every day in the afternoon (maybe every other day) , and have more programming. coffee could be stronger, improved

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