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How Women Heal Retreat

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Phoenicia, NY 12464, USA
Date
March 12 - 14, 2027

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

Reclaiming the Five Expressions of Feminine Wholeness

This March, as the sun starts to warm the snow, you are invited to crack the ice and let the water move.

Together we will remove the mask of usefulness, of “should,” of not disappointing anyone, and no life force moving through. The goal of this retreat is contact with every part of you as a woman, so that what you do has a deeper reason inside you.

A healed woman is not one role. She is a chandelier with five crystals, and each one is lit. She can be the hermit and the protector, the lover and the mother, the one who serves from her own star. Nothing is blocked. She gets energy from all of them.

Inspired by Carl Jung’s work on archetypes, we will open and heal five expressions of a woman’s divinity:

The Sage: union with intuition. “I accept myself, and I am accepted.”
The Amazon: union with action. Strength, boundaries, the ability to receive. “I am enough.”
The Geisha: union with the body. Enjoyment, flow, beauty, the right to rest and pleasure.
The Matriarch: union with family. Healthy belonging without losing yourself.
The Queen: union with service. Influence, higher mission, satisfaction that no one can take away.

Elizabeth Pyjov will facilitate. Come for the archetype work and the meditation, stay for the forest walks and nourishing food, and leave knowing what you want, able to feel it, and no longer at war with yourself.

What awaits you:

Three days of live work in a strong field of women
Healing the Sage, the Amazon, the Geisha, the Matriarch, and the Queen
Exclusive practices that are not taught in open classes
Group sharing and working with what you actually came with
Meditation and inner contact practices
Gentle Goddess yoga and mindful movement
Forest walks on Menla’s 330 acres
Candlelit evening practice
Working with the shadow: the healthy “no”
Reaching new levels of self-acceptance
Letting enjoyment and the body back in
Growing in compassion
Enjoying each other’s company
Eating three healthy meals a day
Accessing deep relaxation
Leaving with a map for how women heal

You will come away knowing what you want in each expression and able to give that to yourself. New possibilities open in relationships, work, health, energy, and satisfaction.



Schedule:

Friday, March 12
The Ice, and the Sage

3 pm Arrive, check in, and explore the property
5 - 6 pm Official welcome, introductions, and the image of the frozen lake: why women heal through all five archetypes
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 pm Candlelit opening practice: Healing the Sage. Intuition, roots, the shadow, and “I am, and that is enough.” The wound of rejection and belonging to yourself again.

Saturday, March 13
The Amazon and the Geisha

7 - 8 am Gentle yoga, stretching, and movement
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 - 11 am Healing the Amazon. Action, protection, receiving resources, and the difference between strength and the clever victim: achiever mode, burnout, and war with everyone. The healed Amazon creates from joy and can say no.
11:30 am - 12:30 pm Free time. Vintage barn, fitness room, a walk, a nap, journaling.
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 - 3:30 pm Optional group hike or time for spa treatments
4:30 - 6 pm Healing the Geisha. Welcoming the Goddess of Ritual. Love of life itself, not of a specific person.
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 8 pm Gentle 25-minute yoga for excellent sleep



Sunday, March 14
The Matriarch, the Queen, and the chandelier

7 - 8 am Gentle stretching and movement
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9 - 10:30 am Time to pack and check out
11 am - 12:30 pm Last practice: Healing the Matriarch and the Queen

The Matriarch: sacred union with partner, children, and the next generation without burnout or self-loss
The Queen: higher values, influence, and service that resonates inside
Meditation on the five lit crystals: Sage, Amazon, Geisha, Matriarch, Queen
How to keep the water moving after you go home
Formal retreat closing


12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch and departure

*Please note this schedule is subject to change.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, Phoenicia, NY 12464, USA

Accommodation

Deluxe King

Accommodation
Deluxe King Room with King Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This Space is not ADA compliant. Deluxe King Rooms are Available only in Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Deluxe Queen

Accommodation
Deluxe Queen Room with Queen Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning All Rooms in Lhasa are Handicap-Accessible, Including Four Rooms with Wheelchair Accessible Showers. Deluxe Queen Rooms are Available in Lhasa Inn and Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Customer Reviews

4.85 out of 5.0 average rating

5.0
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A Great Retreat Experience
The staff was very friendly and accommodating. The grounds are so tranquil and beautiful and the facilities were very clean. My only suggestion for improvement is to provide a more private dressing area after taking a shower.
Many of the attendees I spoke with felt the same way. Thank you!

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Quiet, peaceful, relaxing and rejuvenating
Menla is a wonderful location to attend a retreat or create your own retreat. The forest location is rejuvenating all on its own, but then you add in the delicious food, kind staff, and relaxing bedrooms, and you certainly can find yourself unwinding. I signed up for a yoga retreat, not knowing the instructors or anyone in the class. Most attendees in my retreat were already friends or followers of the instructors, but that didn't affect the quality of the experience for me. You can be a solo retreatant and have an amazing experience there. I also was concerned about the shared bathroom experience as the rooms with private baths were all sold out, but it was never an issue and the bathrooms were pristine. Lastly, I also scheduled spa services and found the practitioner to be very skilled and professional. The spa is a lovely place to spend the day drinking tea, reading books, lounging, and enjoying the small sauna areas. The 10-headed shower was delightful! If you are looking for a beautiful and natural setting, Menla is the perfect place to go!

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A wonderful week
A magical time in the Catskills! The grounds were stunning, the facilities were great and the food was very, very good. Also, the staff were friendly and helpful. I loved my time there. The only disappointment was the spa, in that I had two appointments cancelled. I understand that staffing issues happen but I felt the level of service was not comparable to the rest of the facility although I did go on a guided hike and it was great.

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ASKing age for roombooking
I was there with a retreat. When booking, it asks for my age and my preference (female or male) for my bathroommate, since I am in a single room and share a bathroom with another person. I chose to share with a female. First, I shared the bathroom with a couple. I didn't realize I would be sharing my bathroom with two other people, and that one of them would be male. At one point, as I was leaving the bathroom, I accidentally ran right into the male with just a towel on. Because of personal reasons, this was very challenging . Second, asking for a person's age when booking a room should be optional, or not asked at all. I can see that I was profiled and was in housing with people around my age and order. This could have been totally by coincidence.

Overall, I found the property and the experience to be wonderful. All the staff are truly loving and caring. Thank you!

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Amazingly tranquil space for a retreat with great amenities
Just got home from another amazing retreat at Menla.

The lecture hall is such a great space and the audio / visual people do such an amazing job of stage managing the room with multiple cameras and mics that it makes for a great educational tool to be able to go back to such a well produced recording after. The room is large, with comfortable seating and environment.

The food in the dining hall in the Main Inn building is vegetarian and is awesome, even for omnivores like myself - didn't miss the meat at all for the week.

My room this time was in the same building as the lecture hall and was very nicely done and comfortable with an armoire, queen bed, desk and chair. My previous room had a sink and mirror, this one did not. But that was fine. Previous room in another building shared a bathroom with one other room, this one shared a bathroom with 10 other rooms, but it was a multi person bathroom with two shower stalls, two sinks and one toilet stall for men. So with a mix of genders in the rooms, you only share with about half the rooms. It worked out well. Finally, I used the recommended car service to go to and from the resort and it worked out great. The only issue with that is that the roads around campus are gravel and so if you get dropped at the Inn and walk to the Convention Center like I did with a roller bag, that can be a longish, bumpy walk while most people would be driving. No biggie, just something to keep in mind.

The spa is also amazing. The retreat I was at gave you ample free time to explore the resort and surrounding areas for hikes, etc. I got two awesome massages and the steam room and sauna in the men's room were very nice along with an automated shower that had several massage settings to choose from as well.

All in all, a great educational experience at Menla with one of my favorite Buddhist teachers, with great accommodations, great food, and great people in a beautiful setting in the Catskill Mountains of New York.

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