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How Women Heal Retreat

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Phoenicia, NY 12464, USA
Date
March 12 - 14, 2027

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

Reclaiming the Five Expressions of Feminine Wholeness

This March, as the sun starts to warm the snow, you are invited to crack the ice and let the water move.

Together we will remove the mask of usefulness, of “should,” of not disappointing anyone, and no life force moving through. The goal of this retreat is contact with every part of you as a woman, so that what you do has a deeper reason inside you.

A healed woman is not one role. She is a chandelier with five crystals, and each one is lit. She can be the hermit and the protector, the lover and the mother, the one who serves from her own star. Nothing is blocked. She gets energy from all of them.

Inspired by Carl Jung’s work on archetypes, we will open and heal five expressions of a woman’s divinity:

The Sage: union with intuition. “I accept myself, and I am accepted.”
The Amazon: union with action. Strength, boundaries, the ability to receive. “I am enough.”
The Geisha: union with the body. Enjoyment, flow, beauty, the right to rest and pleasure.
The Matriarch: union with family. Healthy belonging without losing yourself.
The Queen: union with service. Influence, higher mission, satisfaction that no one can take away.

Elizabeth Pyjov will facilitate. Come for the archetype work and the meditation, stay for the forest walks and nourishing food, and leave knowing what you want, able to feel it, and no longer at war with yourself.

What awaits you:

Three days of live work in a strong field of women
Healing the Sage, the Amazon, the Geisha, the Matriarch, and the Queen
Exclusive practices that are not taught in open classes
Group sharing and working with what you actually came with
Meditation and inner contact practices
Gentle Goddess yoga and mindful movement
Forest walks on Menla’s 330 acres
Candlelit evening practice
Working with the shadow: the healthy “no”
Reaching new levels of self-acceptance
Letting enjoyment and the body back in
Growing in compassion
Enjoying each other’s company
Eating three healthy meals a day
Accessing deep relaxation
Leaving with a map for how women heal

You will come away knowing what you want in each expression and able to give that to yourself. New possibilities open in relationships, work, health, energy, and satisfaction.



Schedule:

Friday, March 12
The Ice, and the Sage

3 pm Arrive, check in, and explore the property
5 - 6 pm Official welcome, introductions, and the image of the frozen lake: why women heal through all five archetypes
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 pm Candlelit opening practice: Healing the Sage. Intuition, roots, the shadow, and “I am, and that is enough.” The wound of rejection and belonging to yourself again.

Saturday, March 13
The Amazon and the Geisha

7 - 8 am Gentle yoga, stretching, and movement
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 - 11 am Healing the Amazon. Action, protection, receiving resources, and the difference between strength and the clever victim: achiever mode, burnout, and war with everyone. The healed Amazon creates from joy and can say no.
11:30 am - 12:30 pm Free time. Vintage barn, fitness room, a walk, a nap, journaling.
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 - 3:30 pm Optional group hike or time for spa treatments
4:30 - 6 pm Healing the Geisha. Welcoming the Goddess of Ritual. Love of life itself, not of a specific person.
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 8 pm Gentle 25-minute yoga for excellent sleep



Sunday, March 14
The Matriarch, the Queen, and the chandelier

7 - 8 am Gentle stretching and movement
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9 - 10:30 am Time to pack and check out
11 am - 12:30 pm Last practice: Healing the Matriarch and the Queen

The Matriarch: sacred union with partner, children, and the next generation without burnout or self-loss
The Queen: higher values, influence, and service that resonates inside
Meditation on the five lit crystals: Sage, Amazon, Geisha, Matriarch, Queen
How to keep the water moving after you go home
Formal retreat closing


12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch and departure

*Please note this schedule is subject to change.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, Phoenicia, NY 12464, USA

Accommodation

Deluxe King

Accommodation
Deluxe King Room with King Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This Space is not ADA compliant. Deluxe King Rooms are Available only in Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Deluxe Queen

Accommodation
Deluxe Queen Room with Queen Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning All Rooms in Lhasa are Handicap-Accessible, Including Four Rooms with Wheelchair Accessible Showers. Deluxe Queen Rooms are Available in Lhasa Inn and Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Customer Reviews

4.81 out of 5.0 average rating

5.0
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Cultivating Joy- A Ketamine Assisted Mindfulness Retreat
What a fabulous location and place for this amazing retreat at Menla! The food was great, the grounds were gorgeous and the buildings/ facilities evoked a feeling of peace, honor and tranquility. There is a feeling of spacious stillness at Menla. Look forward to returning.

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5 Stars for an Incredible Weekend!
We had a fantastic time at the Autumn Reset yoga retreat at Menla in October! The grounds are beautiful, the trails are perfect, the food was incredible, and the yoga space was stunning. The staff was super attentive and helpful. Our only feedback for next time is to be more timely with the bus pick-up (one of the other students waited at the bus stop for 25 minutes) and we wish there were some comfy indoor spaces to read and enjoy down time that weren't just the dining hall tables. Overall an A+ weekend and can't wait to do it again - we will be back!!! Thank you Menla!

2.0
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Beautiful but…
I do love the setting & atmosphere at Menla. There’s magic in the air. After 2 previous visits where I stayed in Dragon (which was dumpy) I paid more this time around for Naranda. It was a lovely room, much nicer than Dragon. There is a tiny mirror in an awkward inaccessible place. A larger mirror in a more accessible place would be appreciated. The bathroom stalls could use improvement! One does not lock at all and the way the doors are designed makes it impossible to know whether to push or pull them and they slam loudly when they shut, jarringly so. This could be easily fixed! The showers are extremely small and it’s very easy to freeze or scald yourself if your elbow accidentally hits the temperature lever. The coffee is TERRIBLE! I had a glimpse of the bag and it’s NOT organic or fair trade which is what we are lead to believe. The food is mostly delicious but inconsistent. On our last evening the risotto was extremely undercooked and sometimes things ran out. Lastly, another retreat was happening at the same time and several of my colleagues had no place to sit to eat their dinner as all the seats were taken. No bueno!

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Let’s Talk about appropriation
My stay at Menla was beautiful as the center itself, staff and guest are just lovely. The scenery and energy is amazing. Craig (fire keeper) and Jill (water pourer ) supported by Ericka ( song keeper) sweat lodge is legitimate and wonderful.

However , I attended the Wisdom Warrior retreat more than once , where the leader Kareema should get one star or less. She uses names like Iylana Vanzant and others big named people to demonstrate her so called authority in knowing what she is doing. Turns out Iylana and her had a falling out.

She pretends to be oh so spiritual when all she does is appropriate. When you go to her retreats she’s expects you to work like setting up etc. She poorly plans the retreat and actually it really is not much of a retreat because her co-partner also had a falling out with Kareema and she did most of the retreat prior where it was fine much better.

Kareema picking up the coordinating , designing and more of the retreat herself demonstrated just how much she does not know what she’s doing. Total incompetence.

Furthermore she throws tantrums when she do not go her way and she is perceived by me to be manipulative and verbally and emotionally abusive. Especially when her poorly planned retreat gets someone sick. She has no saftey measures in place and no one available to support her in necessary situations . Her retreats from my experience is Not a safe space at all.

She’s about to make a professional documentary using yet another persons skills for her credit, on the wisdom warriors where it will be used to mislead people on how experienced she is and what a “Queen” she thinks she is personally.

During the retreat she actually told a head staff what she wanted and that she was going to get other staff to do it because this lead staff told her no.

I felt Menla deserves 5 stars itself but wisdom warrior retreat is a façade meaning, I felt I should state the facts as I see them so people do not blindly believe the documentary or any publicity she used to collect peoples money. That’s what she’s really about cash to cash business so she doesn’t have to claim it probably ?

2.0
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Not very embodied
Although the description of this retreat emphasized an experiential focus, the first evening and subsequent morning sessions were nearly all theory, with lots of verbalization of concepts, with very little actual body & sensation focus. There were a guided meditation & a body scan, and a brief intro to qigong, but no exercises to facilitate somatic awareness & discernment. And the didactic material was scattered, lots of seemingly random spiritual axioms and theories put forth, some anecdotes, and an incomplete (without any actual experience occurring) description of how to recognize and deal with “incompleted” feelings or emotions, the basis for this theory of (somehow) completing them, and living a sane, happy & fulfilled life.. Instead, it sounds to me like a lot of tumbling around with and coming to some compromise for control with our ego…and again, the sessions were nearly all theoretical, intellectual. Where’s the body? I wondered, and withdrew from the workshop after the first session of the second day, finding the material & presentation not worthwhile.

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